Married to a classmate, I have always felt my husband gets into a sort of competition with me on every little issue rather than confrontation! Be it who is doing more for the son, who is earning more, who has more friends, who is more social. In the beginning I used to get very irritated or even upset that instead of encouraging and talking good or highlighting the talents of a wife, he is more into that unhealthy competition stemming from jealousy. But well later I realised it was nothing but immaturity. How to cope with it? I chose to ignore.
August 25, 2017