How many agree to being Sapiosexual.

Finally, I have a word to describe what I am, ‘ Sapiosexual’. I always wondered why I could never fantasize about any of the sexy guys I meet at parties. My husband thinks I am trying to hide my feelings. After all, how can a woman not be drooling over a guy who looks like he just walked out of the Mills & Boon book? I may appreciate his looks but that’s it. On the other hand, I would toss and turn over a discussion or views expressed by a guy who may not be that physically attractive. Irrespective of the looks I get attracted to guys who have intelligent conversations. So how many Sapiosexuals here?

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December 21, 2017


  1. I so can connect to this term. I wasn’t even aware that such a term existed, though was always aware of this attraction. Wit and intelligence are two qualities I find way more sexual than just dumb good looks and a great body and connect best with one who feels the same. Many with the W&E prefer brawns over the brains, which I feel is a sad waste.

  2. Though i hate labels, this is one thing which turns me on.. an intelligent woman who has a knack of words and can hold her end of the conversation is a sheer joy and a turn on.. Paired with some good looks its a deadly combo.. one which you can fantasize about both in the bathroom as well as the living room. Slurpp!