Husband-wife and nanad(sister-in-law)…isn’t it a crowd?

It is difficult to handle. As if mom-in-law is not enough. How to handle this second woman in his life who is still not readyto accept that his little brother is a grown up man with a wifenow.

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Leena Jha
July 13, 2017

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I am Krishna July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am

OMG! *p*

LEENA JHA July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am

I think it is more about acceptance than expectations.*p*

LEENA JHA July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am

There is a huge difference between 'sali' and 'nanad'', believe me.*p*

Ranjana Kamo July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am

It can turn out to be a beautiful arrangement if each one respects the others' space and all contribute to the work at home. Once expectations rise, problems are bound to build up. *p*

Ajay July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am

I have lived with my wife and her sister. So it is not exactly the same situation and you are asking, but I quite enjoyed my younger sister-in-law's presence. She is like a sister I don't have. We would hang out, watch movies etc if my wife was busy. And more often than not she and I would have friendly banders with my wife in which she would tell me her younger days stories. It wasn't a crowd, instead family*p*

LEENA JHA July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am

Yeah that true. Each problem is different from other. You will not the real problem till you have to face it.*p*

LEENA JHA July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am

In our Indian society we love to interfere in other space too. Acceptance is the only solution but it takes long to accept it.*p*

LEENA JHA July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am

Imagine…I have 4*p*

I am Krishna July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am

OMG! I have a friend who is so tired of her sis-in-law that she was contemplating leaving her hubby! he came aroud~! *p*

Aman Singh July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am

It is not a crowd until and unless everyone else is happy with their personal places. So, we should just let the person accept the relationship. Obviously, it'll take some time for your sister-in-law to accept you and your presence but I think if you give her some time she'll get used to it. *p*

Antara B Gupta July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am

It is not a crowd if the nanad has a life of her own. She could be single but working then she will have a life outside but if not then perhaps initially she can be treated like a friend. But I know all these are lots of ifs and buts, nothing can be said unless the real problems are known?  *p*

Anonymous July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am

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