I think my husband is cheating on me

I could be wrong but he has been a acting very strange recently. Asking him may ruin our relationship if he's not because he will feel I don't trust him. Should I spy on my partner to confirm he is cheating? What would be the right way to go about it ?

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Anonymous
June 7, 2017

5 Comments

  1. Spying is just not the right way to go about it. If he gets to know that you're spying on him then that will also break his trust in you. So, just right away casually ask him and see how he reacts. I hope he comes out clean. *p*

  2. Spying is not at all a solution. I think you should really talk to him about it. You can start by asking whether he feels that something is not right in your relationship. Ask him endearingly what his views are about the relationship between you two. See how he reacts. His reaction will tell you what he is upto I am sure. If you feel you are being wronged, you have every right to ask. Just have a chat.*p*

  3. You should either trust your spouse or then dont stay with him. Maybe you need to get a life instead of focusing so much on him. *p*

  4. no matter how u look at it, its d best for u to place your doubts right in front of your husband. if you spy on him, he may find out from other sources or by himself. it may hurt him more than you telling him that you have your doubts. *p**p*things would b a little awkward but if you have a nice bonding with him then you would be fine.*p*

  5. If you think he is cheating there is nothing wrong in asking directly. You know him well and if he is actually cheating on you, you may get hints from his reactions. Do not spy on him, because if he is not cheating, that might lose your trust. *p*

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