I want everyone’s take on the occasional fling…..

Casual sex/Wham bam thank you ma’am, whatever you like to refer to it as…I want everyone’s opinion on the occasional fling..Is it healthy? How often should we go in for one?

11 replies
Bineesh Balakrishnan
June 7, 2017


Anonymous July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am
Lekha Menon June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

It's OK to have a fling. Just be smart enough to not complicate it, don't hurt and don't get hurt. And oh yes, let the occasional fling be just occasional not regular :)*p*

Komal Chopra June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

An Absolute YES. YES. YES*p*There is nothing wrong with it provided one doesn’t get involved with friends. Go and do it, bro. It gives you more confidence, more health and make you more aware when you start Some Serious Dating.

Bineesh Balakrishnan June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

The occasional fling is alright, but don't complicate things. I think Benjamin Franklin's quote sums up my views on this topic perfectly-"Rarely use venery but for health or offspring;Never to Dulness, Weakness, or the Injury of your own or another's Peace or Reputation."*p**p**p* *p**p*

DEVRAJ KALSI June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

Are you healthy enough to have as much as you feel like? This is how the query should be framed instead. An occasional fling finds an occasion on its own. On a rainy day or on April's fool's day! You should be ready to fire the shots whenever the opportunity comes your way, from whichever direction. There is no one in the world who can prescribe how many times or how frequently you should have it. It is all up to you and the ready partner(s). But stay protected whenever you have it. And don't make it part of good manners to 'thank ma'am' after you do it! Sounds so formal like leave-taking! *p**p* *p**p* *p*

Aman Singh June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

Until the time we don't start attaching our emotions to the sex, it's just whamming and bamming anyway. Obviously, flings are good. You become better in bed and let the other person improve too. 😉 And, all of this without having anything at stake. So flings are good. *p**p*And how to go about it? With some 'protection' and lot of will power. And sometimes a little alcohol in your belly.*p*

Hridaan June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

Occasional fling is a good thing as it may keep your mind off things. When you are single and free, you tend to feel bored and may want some change for good. I liked the way you used the word "occasional fling" instead of "random flings". I feel, there is no problem with an occasional fling here and there as it may helpyou get on with life. But flings may well be costly. So do make sure that you have Mr. Safety in your pocket :)*p*

SaumyaTewari June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

Depends on how you handle it and whether you can balance it well with the other people involved!*p*

Siddhartha Mishra June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

Some go for it and some take relationship a priority  . Choice is ours. *p*

Raul Sodat Najwa June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

yes yes yes, *p**p*occasional fling is healthy till the time you are clear with the other person too.. for the other person, it should be the same. you need to be on the same plain. . . how often one should go? bro no body will answer this :D*p*

Gaurangi Patel June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

Healthy? *p**p*There can't never be a general answer as a yes or a no in this.*p**p*Depends from situation to situation and mentality to mentality.*p**p*In any case, if u r in a steady relationship, it is cheating your partner.*p**p*Better to work out if relations are estranged or get separated and have as many flings. *p**p* *p*

modernromeo June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

We all need it to lighten the burden of love…as some writer said sometimes it takes 3 to lift the chains of marriage! *p*

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