We have been in the set up where she has taken care of the house and i have been the provider. But in the last few years I see that ego issues have come up. She feels bad about not earning. And brings it up often that she is not comfortable spending 'my' money…don;t understand how this happened. I do not like wastage but I have always been so but now (we have been married for 20 years) when I say anything it becomes about her not earning. I am at a loss. Please advice!
June 7, 2017