Is feminism the cause for most marriage disputes?

Do you think feminism and feminist ideas are leading to more disputes in marriages and couples?

16 replies
June 7, 2017


  1. Until society values the “unmarried” relationships as much as it does “married” relationships — including both society’s views as well as health care and taxes — than I think that marriage can’t be eliminated because it would wrongly punishes those who didn’t choose it. I think that marriage first has to be available to all — same sex couples — and the respect of marriage has to be afforded to committed relationships before we can consider
    eliminating marriage. I think the family should not be eliminated but redefined.

    We have done a good job of “adding” to family — making it about “more than biology” — however, we haven’t yet eliminated biology from that definition and, personally, I think that family should be an emotional bond, not a biological one. Hopefully we will begin to consider this in greater detail as more people use technology to have children.

  2. Some jaded men might sigh, “what’s the point marrying a card-carrying feminist if it’s more likely to end in divorce?” After all, who wants to endure a marriage that replaces “to have and to hold” with “to have and to henpeck?”
    Perhaps the most sobering conclusion of all is this: is feminism’s take on marriage making any of us – men, women and children – any happier? And is divorce, and all the misery and familial damage this inflicts, the final hollow victory for gender equality?

  3. I think so especially in urban areas because “feminism”is no more “women asserting for their genuine rights (equality) as human but has become a tool to prove “women” are superior to “men” for some ladies”.

  4. There is no connection whatsoever between the two! If I ask for equality and respect in a marriage, and that causes a dispute, I must start questioning my partner!

  5. If the man in a marriage is a feminist, I’m afraid that marriage would have less disputes.

  6. If feminism is viewed as “Advantage for females” then yes. But in the truest sense of the term, “feminism” means equality. If a marriage doesn’t assure equality, no harm in breaking it.