Is it wrong to get attracted to someone while you’re in a happy relationship?

Is it wrong to get attracted to someone while you’re in a happy relationship?

10 replies
Antara Sen
June 7, 2017

10 comments

Anonymous July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am
Kaavya June 8, 2017 - 8:54 am

Getting attracted is fine, till it doesn’t lead you towards unhappiness.

Faiza June 8, 2017 - 8:54 am

You are bound to get attracted to people from time to time, even if you are in a happy relationship. These are things one cannot really control or keep the feelings caged up. But passing this phase of getting attracted to another and emerging stronger and more confident about your love and relationship is the real deal.

Gaurangi Patel June 8, 2017 - 8:54 am

No.not wrong, but I believe that something is missing in the present relationship.A deep n brutally honest analysis may surprise u!

Dua June 8, 2017 - 8:54 am

While attraction may be natural, what is wrong is to take that attraction forward. It is then as good, or well, as bad as cheating.

Dua June 8, 2017 - 8:54 am

Why should someone else bear the burden of inconsistent feelings then?In this case the ‘present partner’.

FCP June 8, 2017 - 8:54 am

Attraction is not bound by age or commitment. It just happens. Rather than resisting it, you should just go with the flow. After all, it’s just attraction; may be it will fade away with time if you are mature enough to understand it.

I am Krishna June 8, 2017 - 8:54 am

According to me if you act on your attraction you ‘betray’ your partner and if you don’t you ‘betray’ yourself! But we are so stepped in insecurity that we can’t even talk to our partners about it.

modernromeo June 8, 2017 - 8:54 am

Happy changes right?

modernromeo June 8, 2017 - 8:54 am

Dua…my take? We are too steeped into exclusivity to tihnk of anything else rationally.

modernromeo June 8, 2017 - 8:54 am

How can you control what you feel?

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