Loud sex and Joint family, how does one solve this issue? ChutneypuDi June 7, 2017 ChutneypuDi June 7, 2017 It has been seven long years and I still cannot get it out of mind that people can listen to us have sex! 8 repliesChutneypuDiJune 7, 2017 ChutneypuDi Leave a Comment Cancel Reply Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Δ This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.8 comments Anonymous July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am Naufal Khan June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Then you should scream louder just to freak them out. Thats what I would do! TapanMozumdar June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Poors of India and other such societies do not have the luxury of even a bedroom for them, and yet they multiply faster than the richer with personal bedrooms. Now, the scare of being heard is highly overrated in this segment. I can vouch that life doesn't imitate 'art' or whatever such films are called, and the loudest amongst us can't be heard through a closed,good quality door. This is my experience, from wither side of the door ;)*p**p*Having said that, we are not talking about a heinous crime being xommitted and that should be done in deepest of secret. We are talking about procreation and recreation, at times. Curiosity from the outside of the door may lead to titialltion or embarrassment, depending on the mindset, For the inside people, courtesy will require to contain the exclamations. In fact, deeper and more real the pleasure, the less are the screams. Screams usually indicate posing; fake declaration of feelings which do not exist. The intent may be, then, to have an audience of an ongoing closeness, where none exists.*p* TapanMozumdar June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am I had faced this issue in my early years in a 2 bedroom house. We never cared. Quiet sex has its own charms as well 🙂 On a practical note, have a ceiling fan or AC on and, if possible, buy a TV and put it in the bedroom. DrSanjeevTrivedi June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Play background music. Kaavya June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Why don’t you go out once a month as a getaway and try few interesting stuff where you are not bothered about what people hear 😉 Sangeeta Sinha June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am I have never stayed with family so somehow can’t relate to this problem but yes it can be disturbing. Loud music could offer some solution I guess. s_83 June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am What’s the issue?*p*Those in the house know you are doing it – that is why the families got you married in the first place. Elders know to feign an ignorance while they are only glad for us.*p**p*Actually the fact that your audibility is making your congress semi-public can actually be quite a turn-on. Ayushi June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am If all of this continued for 7 long years and nobody paid any attention then you can keep making love without caring about anyone. Scream a little louder and moan even louder.*p* previous post How would you define your relationship with your partner: all action no talks or talk and help make it better next post Are UberPOOL and OLAShare refined ways to discover love and friendships?