Loud sex and Joint family, how does one solve this issue?

It has been seven long years and I still cannot get it out of mind that people can listen to us have sex!

8 replies
June 7, 2017


  1. Poors of India and other such societies do not have the luxury of even a bedroom for them, and yet they multiply faster than the richer with personal bedrooms. Now, the scare of being heard is highly overrated in this segment. I can vouch that life doesn't imitate 'art' or whatever such films are called, and the loudest amongst us can't be heard through a closed,good quality door. This is my experience, from wither side of the door ;)*p**p*Having said that, we are not talking about a heinous crime being xommitted and that should be done in deepest of secret. We are talking about procreation and recreation, at times. Curiosity from the outside of the door may lead to titialltion or embarrassment, depending on the mindset, For the inside people, courtesy will require to contain the exclamations. In fact, deeper and more real the pleasure, the less are the screams. Screams usually indicate posing; fake declaration of feelings which do not exist. The intent may be, then, to have an audience of an ongoing closeness, where none exists.*p*

  2. I had faced this issue in my early years in a 2 bedroom house. We never cared. Quiet sex has its own charms as well πŸ™‚ On a practical note, have a ceiling fan or AC on and, if possible, buy a TV and put it in the bedroom.

  3. Why don’t you go out once a month as a getaway and try few interesting stuff where you are not bothered about what people hear πŸ˜‰

  4. I have never stayed with family so somehow can’t relate to this problem but yes it can be disturbing. Loud music could offer some solution I guess.

  5. What’s the issue?*p*Those in the house know you are doing it – that is why the families got you married in the first place. Elders know to feign an ignorance while they are only glad for us.*p**p*Actually the fact that your audibility is making your congress semi-public can actually be quite a turn-on.

  6. If all of this continued for 7 long years and nobody paid any attention then you can keep making love without caring about anyone. Scream a little louder and moan even louder.*p*

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