Love and ethusiasm

I have often noticed that couples in their pre-marriage stage are always eager to impress each other, to woo each other and make that effort to surprise and give small surprises. But why does that effort fade after marriage?

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Aman Singh
August 21, 2017

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  1. * Hormones. Blame it on the nature. If hormones did not played any role they won’t even look towards each other. What brings them together. Love hormones play the magic role to fool us into getting together and reproducing. After than the role shifts towards care for raising the child/ children and while women take care of home, men have to earn the bread so that initial attraction fades. Love has the same affect on the brain as drugs have , it gives a kick / a high which we miss once it fades and hence it feels good to fall in love again / extra martital. Key is to understand the nature and it’s role and it’s acceptance and keep working towards bringing the spice or the flame alive in the marriage every now and then without letting it burden you.

  2. Hormones. Blame it on the nature. If hormones did not played any role they won’t even look towards each other. What brings them tg

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