Love without attraction

My younger brother has confessed to being in love with an older woman. But he says his love is beyond the physical as he in love, yet not attracted to her? How does that work? He is 24. I can't understand what to say as he is planning to ask her to marry him!

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Ajay
June 7, 2017

3 Comments

  1. In this situation I would say it's your brother's life and he must be given enough freedom to decide whom he wants to marry. Some men are emotional. What if the women of similar age does not give her the mental satisfaction that an older women does. Try to find out what the lady wants. If she is older she may be already married or something else. We have just one life that too is really short of love. If your brothers really loves that lady I would say be his support instead of being the society for him which is no doubt going to accuse him for this. Sometimes people love mature partners because of lack of understanding they have experienced from others of similar age.*p*

  2. In this situation I would say it's your brother's life and he must be given enough freedom to decide whom he wants to marry. Some men are emotional. What if the women of similar age does not give her the mental satisfaction that an older women does. Try to find out what the lady wants. If she is older she may be already married or something else. We have just one life that too is really short of love. If your brothers really loves that lady I would say be his support instead of being the society for him which is no doubt going to accuse him for this. Sometimes people love mature partners because of lack of understanding they have experienced from others of similar age.*p*

  3. I think he needs some good counseling. You just can't take such a big step all of sudden without consulting a few people. You just need to be sure about it before things go out of your hand. So, ask him not to be impulsive and wait till both of them are very sure about it. *p*

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