marriage with spirituality and mythology

Should we accept everything and always be tortured with the word ….ADJUST???

4 replies
Rachana Chakraborty
August 8, 2017

4 Comments

  1. Thanks Devraj Kalsi ,I too thought the way you have put it.Adjustment is meant to keep relationship alive but in cases where no one expects you to have a big heart and you can love someone else.

  2. Adjust where there is respect, and most voluntarily – not merely for the sake of love, not when ordered or compelled to be flexible. Otherwise, the clever/smart partner will keep fooling the other one by expecting and forcing adjustments all the time. Adjustment is meant to improve the relationship and it should not be misused as an essential tool to keep a relationship alive.

  3. Ofcourse I know that Ibada Monn. I was rather talking about adjusting by forgetting your individuality, your existence… for the person with whom you are in the nuptial bond.You just land up to be just a puppet in his/her hands.Can we adjust to that level?

  4. Depends on what ‘everything ‘ is. Adjusting and compromise are important but not when it is adjusting to abuse or misbehaviour. Walk the distance when the other is ready to walk as well. That’s how much to accept and adjust.

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