Miscarriage

I lost my baby after a 2 month pregnancy. We have been trying for a while. My husband has withdrawn into a shell since. I want to feel his pain but I feel I need him more right now. I don't know how to deal with our relationship problems and marriage after the miscarriage. 

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Anonymous
June 7, 2017

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  1. Go for counselling. There are times when the issue cannot be dealt with just chatting or talking. But solidarity can be shown in other ways too. Doing things what the other likes. Like he should do too. Youbare the one whp has faced the bigger trauma.*p**p* Hugs! Take care…and you will make it through this  :)*p*

  2. Seek help from your close friends. You have to take your mind off it. Easier said than done but you have to do it. Otherwise, depression is gonna eat you both from inside.Try to bring the topic as less as possible after you have a closure and drop the idea of having a baby for the time being till everything gets a little normal.  *p*

  3. It is normal for you both to feel devastated. But this is the time when you need each other the most. Give him some time and then tell him that you are also the fellow sufferer. He is too caught up now and you should make him realise that you are affected too. Just give it a little bit of time and then confront him. I think the only way the two of you can get out of this is by fighting it out together.*p*

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