Rebuilding my marriage

My wife has decided to give our marriage another chance after discovering that I cheated. Things are obviously not the same. I want do whatever is needed to rebuild the healthy relationship that we had. Maybe things will never be the way they were but I want to do the best I can. What can I do so my wife knows that I truly am sorry and fully committed to my marriage?

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Anonymous
June 7, 2017

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  1. One can definitely start afresh. One of my friends, fed up with her husband's unhealthy addiction, thought of separating. However, she is still in the relationship and has also helped her husband get rid of his addiction. The choice is yours. If u seriously want to respect her decision then I believe u can go to every extent to again bring back the spark in ur marriage. Actions speak louder than words. It will take time ur actions will restore her faith and trust in u.*p*

  2. Maybe things will never be the same…but maybe they will…or maybe they can be better.*p**p*If your efforts are sincere people tend to move on in life but yes your efforts have to exceed 100% as your wife will need time to rebuild the trust.*p**p*Go ahead….be sincere….and you can build a good relationship.*p**p* *p*

  3. First just take this off your mind that you cannot rebuild. Second start being more open to your wife. When you last cheated her, she was kept in dark about what is going on in your mind or say in your life. Winning a women's heart is easy, the difficult thing is maintaining this victory. *p**p*If you are truely sorry just go for it. You must understand what she says and what she does not say. *p**p*All the best from my side. Getting things back as normal may be difficult but remember it is not impossible. *p*

  4. You're right. I do need to communicate more. I am afraid of saying something that may hurt her. But not talking will hurt her more I guess. *p*

  5. That is true. I would not believe the words of someone who promised to love me and then cheated on me. *p*

  6. Give your all. My husband hid about his girlfriend before marriage & accidentally compared me with her which ended up in him spilling the beans. I was all ready to walk out when he pleaded me to give him a chance. *p**p*I did give him a chance & we are a happy couple today.  Love selflessly. Never ever cheat again! *p*

  7. I had read somewhere nothing is as convincing as action. So whatever you may be thinking of saying in words..please act on those. Very simple, very affective! *p*

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