Remarrying after losing your spouse

Comparisons are inevitable,but in a second marriage , to compare your first husband with the second is being very unfair . Both the marriages have different dynamics and comparison between the two will never make you settle in the new space and move on in your life. First marriage is about love, fun , happy being together, growing together, the vibe is young while second marriage is adjustment, acceptance, maturity and companionship.

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Vaishali Chandorkar-Chitale
June 7, 2017

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  1. One has to be wise to hold the mind, to see things in the right perspective. Can one get everything from one person? But then comapring I guess is inevitable. But maybe speaking to the mind time and again and steering it in the right direction about the negative implications of the comaprison I think is required! *p*

  2. Marriage is all about companionship. While you do have best friends who are always a call away but a spouse is different. And losing a loving spouse is hell. I pray to God that no one should go through such pain but life has its own way and time is a big healer. Remarrying is absolutely fine at all age across all strata of society but one should never ever compare spouses because no two persons are same. Just as parents must never compare their kids with Sharma ji ka beta, a person marrying for the second or whichever time should never resort to comparisons even if the last spouse was a negative person. *p*

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