Rules of open relationships

Monogamous relationships have some dedined dos and don'ts. While it seems open relationships are far more fluid, there must be a set of rules in open relationships as well. Otherwise it may end in tears of pain, and unjust treatment. If anyone here comes from experience, what are these rules?

3 replies
Swapnil Vyas
June 7, 2017


Anonymous July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am
Rishav Ray June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

I am still not convinced about this open relationship concept. The fact that it is open should mean that there is not much inhibitions. But still there may be some rules. Like keeping your sex life private and not conversing about it with your actual partner. *p*

christina June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

1 don't get ur second partner to the home you are sharing with your first partner. *p**p*Dont play footsie with your second partner if you all are together. Remember walls have ears n eyes as well.*p**p*Dont compare. Don't say things like baby he gave me such a good time in bed. And if you do compare keep it in your heart take it out as ammunition when you have broken up. *p**p*Always be on protection. Otherwise you would be baffled*p**p*live in the moment. Enjoy with which ever partner you are. Always tell soft white lies to your partner. Pander to his ego and have fun with the multiple choices available. *p*

Tina June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

very little research has been done on open relationships…what comes to my mind is if this was workable someone would have found a way around that. Do we not take away from the primary relationship when we get involved with another? I remember reading a book called 'The ethical slut' which dealth with this. Check it out! *p*

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