Marrying again after losing your spouse in the 30s , requires different set of skills as opposed to the first marriage. When you marry for the first time, you are in love, you are young and you think its for ever. In your second marriage , you come with a baggage, you are set in your ways, you have your children and add on his too, and you are older and worldy wise. You need to be patient and mature in this marriage for everything to fall in place.i have been remarried for 13 years now, after losing my spouse at the age of 38. Four years later I found my second husband who too had lost his wife at a young age.We faced many challenges, on work front,home front and with our children but have managed to survive all the storms and are now cruising together . Would love to answer any query or doubts anyone has of taking the plunge for the second time.
June 7, 2017