Dr Puneet Aggarwal, a student of Medicine & Faculty in Medical Sciences is based in Ahmedabad for last 13 years. He is an avid blogger, photographer and writer. His first book, titled Voices & Vices came out in 2013. After that, he has been published into various national and international anthology including The Dance of Peacock .
Honestly, you do feel a little lost after separation. My marriage just lasted five years until I had to part ways with my wife for some reason. It was really tough, in the beginning, to let go of your emotion but with time everything becomes normal. The most difficult part of separation is memories and the pain it inflicts when you cannot share them with the person who was a part of it. I think even after separation, the love may still stay. But we try to evade it by occupying our minds with other things. *p*
Urmimala DasJune 8, 2017 - 8:55 am
Separation is always painful for me ; whether the experience with that person is good or bad. I need a long period to overcome .
Puneet AggarwalJune 8, 2017 - 8:55 am
I can totally understand the phenomenon of escapism or running away from it.*p*
I am glad that you have been able to succeed in dealing with it. May the peace prevails before we are shattered again into the pieces.
Puneet AggarwalJune 8, 2017 - 8:55 am
Often I wonder how much time is required to be over with it. One of my friend says, its half the time you been in relationship.
Puneet AggarwalJune 8, 2017 - 8:55 am
Totally agree to that. Social acceptance has its own pressure and may be a turmoil for the relationship.
JaikalaJune 8, 2017 - 8:55 am
There is always a feeling of hollow inside after separation for whatever reason it happens but you always love the person you loved once its just that you are no more in love with them. You wish good for them but it does not come with any expectation. I feel if we widened the horizon, everlasting love is not a myth just keep the expectation part aside.
TapanMozumdarJune 8, 2017 - 8:55 am
I felt lost, devastated and, trust me, relieved that the irritating burden of being in love don’t have to be carried forward. Romantic relationships, which are undefined or unapproved by the societies or families, can have more devastating effects while being in them than getting out of them.
JeetaJune 8, 2017 - 8:55 am
Every kind of separation is painful. It is only natural to feel lost after a heartbreak. Sometimes I feel as if things will never look better for me. But time is a great healer, speaking from experience that is.
RadhikaTabrezJune 8, 2017 - 8:55 am
I think a feeling of loss is only natural in such a situation. There has to be a proper grieving process after any separation to make sure whenever one does manage to move on, it is after being fully healed. *p*
SampurnaMajumderJune 8, 2017 - 8:55 am
well, I think it happens with people going through such a phase. I saw a close acquaintance of mine, who is currently going through her divorce has lost all charm in life. Though she has taken to travelling a lot more than before and seeks solace in the mountains, a holllow-ness seems to chase her and it seems that ideals like everlasting “LOVE” and “RELATIONSHIPS” are nothing but just myths.
Siddhartha MishraJune 8, 2017 - 8:55 am
Yes , it is natural but one must learn to move on . #Acceptance
TuliBanerjeeJune 8, 2017 - 8:55 am
Completely second you @Tapan *p*
TuliBanerjeeJune 8, 2017 - 8:55 am
I so so loved reading the poem Dr.Puneet :)*p*
TuliBanerjeeJune 8, 2017 - 8:55 am
Absolutely. Every time there is a separation, there is a feeling of genuine loss. What to do with the everlasting love if you cannot hug, cuddle or touch your loved one…
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Honestly, you do feel a little lost after separation. My marriage just lasted five years until I had to part ways with my wife for some reason. It was really tough, in the beginning, to let go of your emotion but with time everything becomes normal. The most difficult part of separation is memories and the pain it inflicts when you cannot share them with the person who was a part of it. I think even after separation, the love may still stay. But we try to evade it by occupying our minds with other things. *p*
Separation is always painful for me ; whether the experience with that person is good or bad. I need a long period to overcome .
I can totally understand the phenomenon of escapism or running away from it.*p*
well, i discovered my own language of keep loving it.. now the love is more or less unconditional.*p**p*here is a piece of poem i once wrote long back https://drpuneetaggarwal.wordpress.com/2015/08/24/unconditional/
Indeed
I am glad that you have been able to succeed in dealing with it. May the peace prevails before we are shattered again into the pieces.
Often I wonder how much time is required to be over with it. One of my friend says, its half the time you been in relationship.
Totally agree to that. Social acceptance has its own pressure and may be a turmoil for the relationship.
There is always a feeling of hollow inside after separation for whatever reason it happens but you always love the person you loved once its just that you are no more in love with them. You wish good for them but it does not come with any expectation. I feel if we widened the horizon, everlasting love is not a myth just keep the expectation part aside.
I felt lost, devastated and, trust me, relieved that the irritating burden of being in love don’t have to be carried forward. Romantic relationships, which are undefined or unapproved by the societies or families, can have more devastating effects while being in them than getting out of them.
Every kind of separation is painful. It is only natural to feel lost after a heartbreak. Sometimes I feel as if things will never look better for me. But time is a great healer, speaking from experience that is.
I think a feeling of loss is only natural in such a situation. There has to be a proper grieving process after any separation to make sure whenever one does manage to move on, it is after being fully healed. *p*
well, I think it happens with people going through such a phase. I saw a close acquaintance of mine, who is currently going through her divorce has lost all charm in life. Though she has taken to travelling a lot more than before and seeks solace in the mountains, a holllow-ness seems to chase her and it seems that ideals like everlasting “LOVE” and “RELATIONSHIPS” are nothing but just myths.
Yes , it is natural but one must learn to move on . #Acceptance
Completely second you @Tapan *p*
I so so loved reading the poem Dr.Puneet :)*p*
Absolutely. Every time there is a separation, there is a feeling of genuine loss. What to do with the everlasting love if you cannot hug, cuddle or touch your loved one…