There is never a good bye for us Puneet Aggarwal June 7, 2017 Puneet Aggarwal June 7, 2017 Do you feel lost after the separation as if the everlasting love is just a myth? 17 repliesPuneet AggarwalJune 7, 2017 17 comments Anonymous July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am Ashutosh June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Honestly, you do feel a little lost after separation. My marriage just lasted five years until I had to part ways with my wife for some reason. It was really tough, in the beginning, to let go of your emotion but with time everything becomes normal. The most difficult part of separation is memories and the pain it inflicts when you cannot share them with the person who was a part of it. I think even after separation, the love may still stay. But we try to evade it by occupying our minds with other things. *p* Urmimala Das June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Separation is always painful for me ; whether the experience with that person is good or bad. I need a long period to overcome . Puneet Aggarwal June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am I can totally understand the phenomenon of escapism or running away from it.*p* Puneet Aggarwal June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am well, i discovered my own language of keep loving it.. now the love is more or less unconditional.*p**p*here is a piece of poem i once wrote long back https://drpuneetaggarwal.wordpress.com/2015/08/24/unconditional/ Puneet Aggarwal June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Indeed Puneet Aggarwal June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am I am glad that you have been able to succeed in dealing with it. May the peace prevails before we are shattered again into the pieces. Puneet Aggarwal June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Often I wonder how much time is required to be over with it. One of my friend says, its half the time you been in relationship. Puneet Aggarwal June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Totally agree to that. Social acceptance has its own pressure and may be a turmoil for the relationship. Jaikala June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am There is always a feeling of hollow inside after separation for whatever reason it happens but you always love the person you loved once its just that you are no more in love with them. You wish good for them but it does not come with any expectation. I feel if we widened the horizon, everlasting love is not a myth just keep the expectation part aside. TapanMozumdar June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am I felt lost, devastated and, trust me, relieved that the irritating burden of being in love don’t have to be carried forward. Romantic relationships, which are undefined or unapproved by the societies or families, can have more devastating effects while being in them than getting out of them. Jeeta June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Every kind of separation is painful. It is only natural to feel lost after a heartbreak. Sometimes I feel as if things will never look better for me. But time is a great healer, speaking from experience that is. RadhikaTabrez June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am I think a feeling of loss is only natural in such a situation. There has to be a proper grieving process after any separation to make sure whenever one does manage to move on, it is after being fully healed. *p* SampurnaMajumder June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am well, I think it happens with people going through such a phase. I saw a close acquaintance of mine, who is currently going through her divorce has lost all charm in life. Though she has taken to travelling a lot more than before and seeks solace in the mountains, a holllow-ness seems to chase her and it seems that ideals like everlasting “LOVE” and “RELATIONSHIPS” are nothing but just myths. Siddhartha Mishra June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Yes , it is natural but one must learn to move on . #Acceptance TuliBanerjee June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Completely second you @Tapan *p* TuliBanerjee June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am I so so loved reading the poem Dr.Puneet :)*p* TuliBanerjee June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Absolutely. Every time there is a separation, there is a feeling of genuine loss. What to do with the everlasting love if you cannot hug, cuddle or touch your loved one… Leave a Comment Cancel ReplyYou must be logged in to post a comment. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. previous post Can one have sex without emotion? next post Do you feel jealous in your relationship? What really stirs up your emotions and how do you deal with it?