What will your reaction be when you come to know/realise that your husband/partner is a gigolo?

I have come across a real-life incident, where, 3 months’ after marriage the wife discovers that the husband is a gigolo and even has male partners. In such a situation, what your immediate reaction would be?

9 replies
Sampurna Majumder
June 7, 2017


Anonymous July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am
Urmi June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

I’d leave. NOW. So should she. *p**p*While this isn’t about judging the partner’s sexual choices in the past, the edifice of any new relationship ought to be built on the foundation of truth. God knows what else she has been subject to other than heartache.

Urmimala Das June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

Post your reply hereHeart breaking situation for the woman. She needs to come out of this relationship as there are health related issues.

Rishav Ray June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

It is better to file for divorce and get separated solely because the relationship started with a lie. The husband should pay the price for not being entrely honest with his wife before marriage. So I think that is the right thing to do.*p*

JoyeetaTalukdar June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

If that is his profession and he is strictly professional and keeps his professional & personal life separately then probably I might be O.k with it. My immediate reaction would be to Keep Calm and let find out a way to resolve that. Because in many cases the heath life of the wife can be at stake if the guy isn’t taking proper precautions. But if the guy himself confesses his being a gigolo then probably there is a probability that he wants to come out of the situation or he really likes his wife.*p*

Raul Sodat Najwa June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

I will ask about how much income generated and interview her*p*Then I ll file a divorce on the basis of overactiveness

SampurnaMajumder June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

good enough

SampurnaMajumder June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

just to let you know, the lady has already walked out on her partner and awaiting divorce

SampurnaMajumder June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

This was an arranged marriage and the couple had a courtship period of nearly 10 moths

RakshaBharadia June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

That is really a difficult situation to handle. Was this a love marriage? Can we separate love from the body? I do not think so…also what about STD’s?

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