When it comes to young men and older women dating each other, I think this combination kind of works. With the maturity levels matching better, the compatibility is better. What say?

When it comes to young men and older women dating each other, I think this combination kind of works. With the maturity levels matching better, the compatibility is better. What say?

11 replies
Swati Mehra
June 7, 2017


Anonymous July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am
K June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

I feel age does not define maturity .But people evolve with  the life experiences that they have had and that does not depend on number of years. Dating will be more fun if you can act both playfull and mature irrespective of age and that in a way makes you more comapatible!*p*

Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

Interesting take..*p*

Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

True.. compatibility is subjective and speciic…*p*

Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

Touche :)*p*

Rupali Tiwari June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

i think in every relation irrespective of the age difference, one is mature and other is somewhat childish. during the marriage, it is said that the guy should be a little older than the girl so as to help to build the relation better and the same can be said if the girl is older. I have a hard time imagining why it is still considered a taboo. *p*

Lekha Menon June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

I don't exactly agree. Maturity doesn't always have to do with age, you can be young yet  have a deep understanding of relationships and what they entail. In a younger man-older woman scenario, one can't generalise that the woman will be some wisened old quiet lady while the man will be a young energiser bunny. Age has nothing to do with how you handle relationships, your life experience does. Compatibility depends on a whole lot of factors, age, according to me, is a minor one.*p*

DEVRAJ KALSI June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

All those not so grown-up mama's boys will always look for older women to pamper them. Older women will find themselves valued, enjoy higher esteem because these young men ignored young babes and opted for mature women. Compatibility works here because women are in charge and young men surrender themselves completely. They will guide men all the time.  *p*

Akshata June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

The Macrons are literally bringing this story to limelight , arent they? Its somehow quite amusing that when the woman is older, it feigns more interest and gossip from all over as compared to an older man- take Trump and Melaine witha  25 year age gap, there isnt as much hullabaloo. *p**p*An older woman and younger man bring something unqiue to the relationship, the stability and maturity of the older partner and the carefree attitude of the younger, which balances the boat. The  so called age gap is merely an artificial barrier these days with people of all ages doing things which was once only considered a thing of the young*p*

christina June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

Certainly that is the best and the most exciting combination. The maturity the experience and the confidence and the knowledge of the power of her own sexuality works wonder on the callow youth. It's a learning n a mesmerising experience for him. And of course exciting go ahead and have fun*p*

I am Krishna June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

Actually I have done a lot of reading on this. The thing with an older woman is she is a lot more confident about what she wants than young one who is more hooked to what the man may think of her. And that freedom makes her enjoy herself more and generally makes the relationship more fun. I read a piece on that here itself. Here it is the link! *p**p*https://www.bonobology.com/the-affair/having-an-affair/657-it-had-all-started-with-innocuous-flirting-on-whatsapp*p*

Hridaan June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

I dated a woman who was elder than me and i thought we really got along well. So yes I would say that the combination is really good as balancing each other is concerned. But really, the compatibility part depends solely upon the couples involved. My uncle is happily married with a woman who is five years elder to him and they seem perfectly happy. In the same way I was with a woman and things went on well until we got separated. So I think its llike every other relationship. If we keep the ego aside, relationships like these will go on smoothly.*p*

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