When trying to find someone new, what should we look for in him ? Tania Dey June 7, 2017 Tania Dey June 7, 2017 We tend to be confused when selecting someone else. What should we do ? 17 repliesTania DeyJune 7, 2017 17 comments Anonymous July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am Suraj June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am I believe it’s the empathy, the kindness that you should look out for when trying to find someone. That person will be with you no matter how broken or imperfect you are, something which we all are; that person will allow you to err and forgive easily; that person will keep you anchored in all the turbulence in life. SreemoyeeBasu June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Something that we wanted in our past relationship, but never got, maybe.*p* Puneet Aggarwal June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am The brain runs on calculations and the heart on it's own beat. Let the heart be the pacemaker and better judge. *p**p*If you will look for reasons, imagine the day when you will run out of same reason for the same love.*p**p*Peace*p* TaniaDey June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am About this dive that you talk about. what if we realise it's the wrong plunge ?*p* TaniaDey June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Isn't that grading people on the basis of merits and de-merits? How much of it is love then ?*p* TaniaDey June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Again, very informative and apt. Thank you sir :)*p* TaniaDey June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am These are wonderful words, I'll mark them :)*p* TaniaDey June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am I did actually 😉 Thank you for the wonderful words :)*p* TaniaDey June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am I really like what you said here :)*p* ShiviGoyal June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am As they say – Follow your heart! Heart never fails! I feel when deciding on something new, in th e present world one needs to be true oneself and monitor all the what's actually you are looking for in life from him. Guess this small practice will help you get your answers. *p* ShiviGoyal June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Stay Blessed… *p* Andy June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am There is no fixed formula to apply while looking for someone, I wish there was though. I guess one should follow the gut instinct. Rest nothing is constant , people change with time and so does their bank balance. Someone who can make u laugh when u find is hard to smile and wipe your tears when u need to cry sounds like a partner, rest we all are different shades , whichever suits whom is the best.*p* MithunMukherjee June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Interesting question. While most people will say follow your heart, I think a little help from the mind doesn't hurt. Look for signs of compatibility – interests and the like. And even if interests don't match, see if you can match your wavelengths. At the end of the day, it is this that will keep you together. *p**p*Ofcourse, if you are already in love, throw everything to the wind and dive headlong!*p* Raul Sodat Najwa June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am Exactly *p**p* *p**p*there cant be any specific point what to look and what not to look for searching someone new *p* Raul Sodat Najwa June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am I think one should lock herself in a room, sit for long, think about what they are looking for in a partner and note it down on a piece of paper. Whenever you have crush on someone then start looking for those points. One who score maximum is the one who qualifies *p**p* *p**p* *p**p*P.S I have done engineering and I think like this ??*p* SaumyaTewari June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am I think its simple- look for what makes you want to be with that person all the time- what you miss when he is not around, what brings a smile to your face when he is around and what surprises you about him- something you never knew you wanted in a partner!*p**p*Though, the difficult part is to find it ;)*p* Hridaan June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am First of all you need to find out what you want in a relationship. What your desires are, what are the qualities you find attractive in the other. Conversation is a good start. The more you communicate the more you will be able to know about a certain person. With time, you may fall for the person without even knowing why and if it does not work out you will know that it is time to move on. So I feel the more you get to know about the other person the better it will be to make a move forward.*p* Leave a Comment Cancel ReplyYou must be logged in to post a comment. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. previous post Close and happy human relationships provide protection against stress. Thus, love, in its various forms, makes the best health insurance! What do you think? next post Time to smell the coffee boys?