Why is he so insensitive to my feelings? Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 Why is he so insensitive to my feelings? Does being an introvert justify everything? 10 repliesSwati MehraJune 7, 2017 10 comments Anonymous July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am " I think u should try to search what he likes,what makes him happy…"*p**p* *p**p*what if I feel that put in a lot and he does nothing!*p* Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am "one way drive" – As bittehr as this may sound but even I feel like this at times.*p* Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am Thanks for the consolation Sukanya but he does not reciprocate to anything. I feel frustratted at times. The only excuse that he has to this is – "Main Aisa hi hun."*p* Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am "Not every guy is cool romantic as Shahrukh khan or Ranbir Kapoor. Introverts will never speak openly about that they care for you, but they do small small things and from their gestures you can realize how much they love you and sensitive towards you and realation."*p**p* *p**p*I am a Literature fanatic but that does not mean that i do not realise the fact that Edward exists only in Wuthering Heights.*p**p*Give that poor guy a chance!*p**p*Given a million.*p**p* *p**p*he does not reply to mymessages, does not comment on anything I post on FB while with all his other friends he is quite social. It hurts. Guys also need to find out a mid path!!*p**p* *p* Bhupinder June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am @ Swati – If guys can understand the hints, dont you think there wont be any websites, books and expert talks on relationships?*p**p*I dont know how much intense relationship is of yours or is it only one way drive? There are many things to drive a car on bumpy or on smooth road. Every engine of every car is different, you just need to understand how to use clutch and aceleartor to have smooth ride. After all you are the driver of your relationship and he is just driven by you.*p* Bhupinder June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am Certain whys we have to figure out in life. Even google didnt answers all the questions.*p**p*He is living with you, you know his nature, mood, likes, dislikes. You can easily draw the result. Not every guy is cool romantic as Shahrukh khan or Ranbir Kapoor. Introverts will never speak openly about that they care for you, but they do small small things and from their gestures you can realize how much they love you and sensitive towards you and realation.*p**p*Women often thing from heart and guys think from somewhere else, thats the major issue. Relax and talk to him openly and discuss that you do need some little attention and sure he will listen you. Give that poor guy a chance!*p* Sukanya June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am Sit on his shoulders and make him talk to you. But if he is still ignorant , ignore him too for some time and see how he reacts. It's payback. See if that works. Guys usually seek attention. They do not like being ignored. So do we, right . *p* Sukanya June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am It is not that introverts do not talk about their feelings or show signs. They may not be able to woo you with their phrasy words, but they will defnitely show it in their regualar chores. So look out for those. If you still think he is insensitive, then I would say sit down and talk about it. Ask him. Or get a third party help*p* Mhadmax June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am May be he likes something else.. I think u should try to search what he likes,what makes him happy…try to involve urself with his favourite activity..may be he needs ur more support and love. aif u give ur best towards him then may be he will understand ur feelings and will do things that u expect…*p**p*Dear swati,sometime we need to take one step ahead to make our relationship great and strong…*p* Mhadmax June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am Swati – if you put alot efforts in him to know his likes & he does nothing then you should focus on your self. You have right to live happy. You should invest time in your hobbies, go out & have fun with friends. Just put him aside for few days & see his response…*p**p*Still he is the same guy then you should move forward & enjoy your life :)*p* Leave a Comment Cancel ReplyYou must be logged in to post a comment. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. previous post Deciding priorities next post How to say no to a homosexual friend without hurting his feelings?