Why is my girlfriend keeping our relationship secret in our office?

I am in relationship with this girl who is in my office. Whenever someone asks her about our relationship, she never accepts that she is dating me. I tried talking about it, but she always avoids the topic. I don’t know what does she wants to keep it a secret. She is modern girl and even her parents are broad minded. What do you think is the reason?

2 replies
Aman Singh
June 7, 2017


  1. It’s possible she’s not as sure of the relationship. It’s best you discuss the issue, not as an accusation but as something that affects you. If she is not sure, give her the space and time required. A relationship is beyond just telling other people. In the end, what you two feel is what’s important.

  2. Your GF keeping your relationship secret from the office people has nothing to do with her broad mindedness. The office is not exactly an ideal place for having a relationship. Maybe she just does not want the focus of her employers to be shifted from her work, onto the fact that she is having a relationship with someone in the office.

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