I have seen many people behaving rudely to their spouses but very sweet and polite with outsiders. Whats the reason behind it??
I have seen many people behaving rudely to their spouses but very sweet and polite with outsiders. Whats the reason behind it??
It’s complacency.
They start treating their partners as a commodity. They feel that whatever they do, their partners are never going to go away. So they show minimal love even though the love may still be there.
True*p*
After living together4 a long while, v take our partners 4 granted which is acceptable up to a certain limit. But in any case..watsoever behaving rudely 2 our spouses is not a right thing*p*
After two people have been in a relationship for a considerable amount of time, they start taking each othet for granted as they are in the comfort zone of the relationship.*p**p*That said, appreciating and wooing may not be a necessity for one reason which is lack of insecurity. But the expectations to read and understand the other's moods, worries and preferences are raised all the more. This usually becomes a reason for fights in middle aged couples.*p*
yeah..and it is quite common. ..I know some people who fit well into this category… as far as I have observed, it is mostly due to low self-confidence. They act arrogantly to feel superior.*p*
yes exactly*p*
yes sir ..very true. But after getting continuous insults and rude behaviour from our spouses…naturally the self esteem goes down*p*
yes but the reality is far from it….U have seen many people suffering it. *p*
I feel they take their personal relationships for granted. It is a harsh and bitter truth that I too have witnessed. No relationship should be taken for granted else it starts to decay. Each individual needs appreciation and affection. *p*
1. Familiarity breeds contempt. Learn to maintain dignity and distance.*p**p*2. Do not allow the spouse to take you for granted.*p**p*3. Learn to command respect.*p**p*4. Improve self worth.*p**p* *p*