Would you consider a third person (male or female) to spice up your sex life?

Should your other half propose trying a threesome, would you be comfortable with that? What about sex aids? Does that upset a man if his wife shows immense pleasure using a for eg. a vibrator? 

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Naufal Khan
June 7, 2017

7 Comments

  1. Khan Sahab, a threesome is not always wholesome! It is pretty hard work. In case menage trois is proposed by a partner, it is perhaps for the sake of variation or something new/exciting. In most of the cases, it is fantasy stuff and the reality is different and disappointing. Still, if you wish to try and explore triple fun, go ahead and have a shot. The balancing act will teach you to keep yourself balanced. *p**p* *p*

  2. For me, sex is an intimate act.*p**p*Inclusion of a third person or aids are a complete turn off. If I need other things or people to spice up my sex life then I am probably not doing the 'love making' correct!*p*

  3. Opinions thus far are quite interesting, I have my personal account being published here on Bonobology and look forward to the comments on that. *p*

  4. Married for 24 years…I think I amready to go and let my partner have fun too! Life is seriously…less fun! *p*

  5. I think, for going for a threesome, a couple should be really secure with each other and share that sexual chemistry and intimacy! For partners who have a high sex drive and wish to experiment more in bed, a threesome can be something that can bring a lot of spice. *p**p*I'm sure it wouldn't be as simple as it looks in the porn, but I feel if the partners are comfortable with each other, it will be quite an adventurous experience. *p**p*Coming to the vibrator, it is again about how confident you are about your performance in bed and how good you know your partner. Using a vibrator can both be seen as adventurous and fun along with daunting and upsetting. It's all about how secure you are in a relationship, only that will open more ways of exploring your sexuality and try new unusual things in bed.*p*

  6. Depends upon preferences and of course mutual agreement. Well, personally I would not prefer something like that. Not that experimental, honestly. *p**p*May be its the ego that will upset him. But I do not think it is of much significance. *p*

  7. It's not as easy as it looks in the pornography. I don't think it spices up the sex life but over complicates it. You will just feel like keep doing it again and again and this ruins the personal intimate moments which only a couple should share. *p**p*I don't feel an inanimate object can be that harmful as another person. And until and unless it's under control and a wife have sex as often as she uses a vibrator, it should be cool for any husband. She just shouldn't stop getting aroused by her husband because she's overusing a dildo or a vibrator. *p*

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