Would You marry someone who had an artificial elbow and has some restrictions in one had?

Well, I am a woman in early 30s, (31) and I have an artificial elbow. Underwent a surgery after a major accident. Guys have started rejecting me because of that. What should I do now?

5 replies
Sampurna Majumder
June 7, 2017


Anonymous July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am
Mani Shankar June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

Never lose hope. To be honest, there may be few people who would want to marry but it is also a fact that many men have agreed to marriage also. Firstly, you must accept the fact that you are normal, speak about the accident, surgery, usage of artificial elbow confidently that will show your inner courage to fight against odds. People will respect such self confidence. Your face will radiate with happiness, smile, cheerfulness that will endear you to people whom you meet. This positive attitude in you will open up many opportunities. I had met a person who had only one hand and one leg and without use of any walking sticks, he used to hop and move about. Without losing hope, he looked around for marriage and finally got married to a healthy lady who are blessed with 3 normal children. This man used to generate admiration and awe in people who meet him – I have never seen him sad and he always sport a smile. Very inspiring person. *p*When you change your outlook and become positive, you will start loving whatever happens. My best wishes.*p*Mani Shankar

Arti Ohri June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

“LIVE A LIFE DEFINED BY ACHIEVEMENTS NOT LIMITATIONS”- Sampurna let your disability polish you and make you a richer person..don’t go around looking for a guy in armour…u don’t want somebody feeling sorry for u…remember what’s inside is what really matters…so work at building yourself and shinning so bright that the right guy will just want you for you!

DrSanjeevTrivedi June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

When you come across the person destined for you, you shall see he accepts you whole heartedly. *p*

SampurnaMajumder June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

thanks much

U June 8, 2017 - 8:55 am

Well the one who cant accept ‘all of you’ now and marry you … . definitely doesnt deserve to share all the joys of life with you in future. Personally speaking If I had to marry a guy with a condition sumilar or worse, it am good with that. There are other things those matter.

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