Break-up & Loss

My divorce was not by choice. It was forced on me

They seemed to be the perfect couple until one day he just vanished from her life. She still does not know why, but she had to move on
forcefully divorced

(As told to Yasmin)
(Names changed to protect identities)

The ideal couple who had it all

We met over 15 years ago in an arranged marriage. We shared the same background, the same ideologies – everything was peachy.

So we tied the knot and were on cloud nine. To everyone, we were the ‘IT’ couple who had it all. I was a stay-at-home mom, while he brought in the bread. He had an excellent job and pretty much raked in the big ones.

A year or two on and we welcomed a little boy into the world. The baby was extremely cute and stole the hearts of everyone. Two years later, we welcomed another bundle of joy.

Years went by, we moved around as he shifted jobs. We lived life king size and the children grew up happy and content. They were not spoiled in the strictest sense but were secure.

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  1. You know what, we always don’t get to choose our realities. Sometimes they just hit us like the uncalled for strong waves that has the capacity to snatch the ground beneath our feet. Yes, you didn’t want the divorce. Yes, it still happened. But you kept carrying on with your life. Now isn’t it saying something about you? You are a fighter woman. And i want you to know that you are much more than a wife to a husband who didn’t acknowledge your worth. And that’s why you were released from the pain that you didn’t deserve. So hold on to that fire that is burning brighter than the fire around you. You do good. You do enough.

  2. Hey, really you are a strong person. U live for your kids n yourself. God bless you with happiness!!!

  3. So sorry to hear what has happened in your life. Don’t pay any heed to what others say and live your life happily. As per me you are a true fighter who has fought against all odds.

    My gut feeling says that he may try to contact and reconcile with you at a later stage. Please don’t give a second chance to such cheaters.

    May you find your true happiness. Stay blessed.

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