We bring you a list of questions you should ask yourself before getting married. Bonobology.com is the couple-relationship destination for Indians everywhere! Couple relationships…the pains and pleasures, the anxieties and comforts, the craziness and calm. The inevitable distance between two people in love, the restless neediness of love.
Deciding to get married is no child’s play. Those who had taken this decision on a whim wake up one morning with the inevitable thought ‘I shouldn’t have rushed into this’. So if you are thinking of joining the Band, baaja, baarat bandwagon anytime soon, ask yourself these potent questions first before diving into it.
You are used to the single life now, are you sure you are ready to give up certain freedoms for another person and push your boundaries to adjust? A marriage takes two. Are you sure you two are emotionally compatible? Marriage is about meeting each other’s expectations. Are you okay with what both of you want from it?
In India marriage doesn’t happen between two individuals, it’s a union of two individual families. Are both of your families happy with each other?
Being in a long-term relationship with a dominating partner can kill you from inside. Before committing to spend the rest of your life with someone, ask yourself, do you think your partner is more dominant in the relationship?
Not being in sync with each other sexually means your marriage is not going to be a healthy one. So ask yourself, do you think you are sexually compatible with each other?
Being married also means you would have to shoulder more responsibilities now. Are you ready for it?Published in