Q: We’ve been sexting for more than three months now. No pictures exchanged yet. He asks, but I tactfully change the topic, because I think he might leak them. He seems distant somehow now, maybe he’s sexting someone who will provide what I don’t want to. Should I be direct with him and say if it has to be, it has to be IRL (in real life) not URL? (We live in different states.)
A: It is absolutely okay to make known to anyone you are sexually intimate with in real life or on online, what your personal limits of comfort are.