Here’s what it takes to satisfy a woman in bed

Sharmila Majumdar
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A couple came to me about their sexual dysfunction. They were extremely distressed and hadn’t been having sex for a long time. Their communication had eroded and they were just cohabiting for the kids’ sake. However, the lady finally decided to seek help and searched for a lady sexologist, approached her husband and convinced him.

When I examined their case I found they had a lot of sadness and bitterness. The husband complained that his wife was completely non-responsive sexually; he didn’t want to have sex with a cold corpse. From anger and to teach the wife a lesson he stopped having sex with her. He confided that he didn’t have any affairs due to his conservative upbringing plus he loved his kids too much to get involved anywhere, as he saw his office colleagues suffer as an aftermath of an affair.

The wife said she did care for her husband, but she wasn’t sexually satisfied by him in any case, so she was glad that they don’t have sex at all.

But of late it’s been pricking her that the gap was increasing between them drastically and so she wanted to close it.

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I put the couple on sex therapy which teaches a couple to unlearn and relearn the art of sensuality. Touching is a very significant part of sexuality and sensuality, opening all our five senses while touching sensually, whispering sweet nothings, giving and taking feedback of what feels good and preserving intercourse for the last part of the treatment modality.

They began to slowly communicate via SMS and emails about needs, wants and fantasies, complimenting each other and rediscovering their physical pleasure.

Woman aroused

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Women want a communicative partner who is kind and passionate rather than only an orgasm.

Although a survey shows that satisfied women have sex several times a week, two out of five are still left craving more. Women have a broad definition of sex, so this doesn’t necessarily mean they want more intercourse. A woman might just want to feel more sexual in general, so let her know you’re thinking about her throughout the day, and make her feel sexy.

Grabbing the sheets

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If you want a confident sexual partner, never criticise other women’s bodies. She’ll worry about how you feel about hers. She won’t feel comfortable showing you her body if she’s worried you’ll think she’s fat, ugly, or full of cellulite.

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1 comment

Preeti Goyal
Preeti Goyal June 29, 2018 - 1:34 pm

Very nice and informative!

The scenes that we see in online videos are acting, not real life, and they don’t portray what real women want.

Foreplay is what most of the women like. Communication in the bedroom is paramount; don’t assume it’s all perfect just because your girl hasn’t complained or demanded something. Communication is key!

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