Hints to drop to your man to have great sex

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Girls, sometimes you might be in the mood for some hanky-panky with your man, but you just don’t want to explicitly tell him. For all such times, simply use these (tried and tested) tricks and you will have your guy turned on in no time.

It’s also one of the ways to keep flirting and maintain excitement in the relationship.

So girls, let’s get creative and flirty at the same time. Here are a few ways to tell your man you want to have sex, without even saying a word.

1. Drop small hints

Leave a sexy prop, like the vibe you both like to use or some lube or some sexy lingerie, on the bed to signal your interest. Send a hint by placing your sexy nightwear in the bathroom in the morning so he gets the message: “This is what I am coming home to tonight”. And if he asks about it, just wink and then go for it!

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2. A kiss to die for

A passionate, wet smooch can speak a thousand words. When you lock lips for a little longer than usual or with a bit more tongue than normal, he will surely realize what is coming for him.

3. Wear something that sends him a message

Try a certain piece of jewellery or anything that your guy gave you and you don’t wear it usually, it’s when “tonight is the night” (neckpiece, bracelet, etc.). No one will question why you are wearing it, but your husband will definitely get the message.

4. Flash him

Just bend over him to pick up something (a very common one though, but it works really well!) or if you are heading upstairs, just pull up your shirt, show off a little and let him know, this is what he can get tonight if he tries. Wear revealing clothes, put on some light make up, try a nice hairstyle and definitely wear hot lingerie. This is a recipe for making yourself irresistible. (Koi toh rok lo types :P)

5. Get a little handy

Unintentionally, brush against his parts or sneakily spank his butts or just touch him intensely and set the mood for some sex time. Mission accomplished! (You do not have to say even a word)

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6. A naughty text message

“Guess what I am wearing right now”

“Any plans for the night, let’s just Netflix and chill with some beer”

“I have a few things in my mind that we could do tonight, instead of just talking”

“ I have to admit something here, I have been thinking about you all day. Without any clothes on and inside my blanket”

If you can’t say it, you surely can type it and be a naughty girl!

7. Finally, Just Say it!

Sometimes, guys might appreciate when you are direct. You can go like, “How about dessert after dinner?” And wink! Or “I hope you are all set and ready because I have plans for tonight!”

Girls, try these tricks to drive your man wild and horny and enjoy some great sex. Good luck, ladies!

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Priya Jindal
Priya Jindal May 18, 2018 - 9:02 pm

I also agree with Ishita that older couples might not prefer such methods. How can they attract their partner’s attention?

Neeti Singh
Neeti Singh May 18, 2018 - 7:34 pm

A long kiss does the trick for me 😉

Swati Mehra
Swati Mehra May 18, 2018 - 4:59 pm

I would rather just say it than trying any of the other mentioned ways. Always easier 🙂

Ishita Roy
Ishita Roy May 17, 2018 - 4:18 pm

This is mostly for the honeymoon phase of a relationship. Don’t know if this will work after 20 years of marriage.

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