Love your birthday suit
Jockey may be the next best thing to naked, but nothing beats the real thing. Have you ever tried it? Being naked for no apparent reason? Have you tried being naked for nobody else but you? Have you ever sat down to work at home naked on a hot summer night? Have you sung to yourself while cooking your breakfast butt naked? You should. You should fall in love with yourself naked. That is how you came to this world and that is the most original version of you. So without inhibitions or taboo, start loving yourself.
What do you see in the mirror?
What do you see in the mirror? When you are getting ready in the morning or dressing up for a party in the evening: What do you actually see? You don’t see yourself, not really. You see only the face that you want to share with the rest of the world. You want to look a certain way so that nobody is uncomfortable with how you look. But in that way you deprive yourself of self-love. You miss out on looking at the real you. Go to the mirror right now: undress in front of it, passionately and seductively. Look into your eyes and then glance at that body of yours. Your naked body, your naked self, deserves your appreciation and validation. This doesn’t always have to come from your intimate romantic partner; it just needs personal acknowledgement.