How to handle a partner who cheats on you and lies about it

How to handle a partner who cheats n you and lies about it? Prachi explains. Prachi Vaish the counselor of Bonobology and renowned Relationship expert answers that on Bonobology.com FB live session These questions were asked by our viewers on our Facebook Live session on our Bonobology FB page.

</p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">During a Q&A session on Bonobology Facebook, Prachi Vaish, a counselor on Bonobology and renowned psychologist answers a question of a user about how to deal with a cheating partner.<<h2><b>How to deal with a cheating partner?</b></h2><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">First and foremost, you should never assume that your partner is cheating on you or having an affair behind your back. Assumption kills the relationship slowly like a poison. So unless you do not have a surefire proof that something is indeed happening which shouldn’t happen, you just cannot make assumptions and act on the same. Find some concrete proof. You don’t have to obsess about finding a proof that would 100% prove that your partner is indulging in infidelity but get your hands on something substantial that you can be sure of; that’ll be enough for you to question your significant other.<<h3><b>Cheating partner signs</b></h3><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There can be a lot of times when your husband (or men, in general) might become aloof or go hiding in his cave. Men often do that. But it doesn’t always have to mean that his behavior is due to something that’s related to you. Aloofness is not always a sign of an extra-marital affair or a lack of connection with you. If something is bothering your husband, he might want to focus on that. Men generally compartmentalize various issues in different boxes. In their minds, they often forget that the way they are dealing with some issues might affect the people around them simply because their focus is just on their problem at hand. So what seems like cheating partner signs might not actually be that at all.< <span style="font-weight: 400;">Cheating in a relationship can be a deal breaker and you shouldn’t ruin your relationship just on the basis of your doubts. Communication is a golden key in any relationship so talk things out. 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However, having an affair and cheating are two marginally different things and the reasons why a man may have an affair or cheat and the reasons why a woman would have an affair and/or cheat her spouse are very different. In many marriages, a spouse having an affair turns out to be ‘a marriage stabiliser’. Read More This could sound shocking but it’s true and at Bonobology we have plenty of confession stories to ratify this fact. Affairs can either destroy or stabilize relationships but there is no denying the fact that affairs come with immense consequences. When people talk about cheating, they usually refer to physical infidelity; however, do we know that it is emotional cheating that causes more pain and destroys relationships? Browse our Affair and Cheating category to know the real reasons why men and women have an affair and cheat their spouses.">Affair and Cheating</a><ul class='children'><li class="cat-item cat-item-60856"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/affair-cheating/emotional-stress/" title="There is no denying the fact that an extramarital affair can make one feel like a teenager in love again as the heart races when you see The One and then there is an emotional and physical connection that is established outside the existing relationship. But as the days go by cheating is bound to create emotional stress. Read More The stress could be felt by the person who comes to know about the affair or it could be felt by the person who has to deal with the guilt of cheating constantly and live a life of lies. Due to extramarital affairs, the emotional stress builds up over time and sometimes as a result couples decide to part ways, some continue in unhappy marriages, internalizing the constant stress and some choose to go to a counsellor to work things out. In this section,Bonobology stories talk about emotional stress that results from extramarital affairs and how people choose to deal with it. ">Emotional Stress</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60857"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/affair-cheating/extra-marital-affairs/" title="Is there any difference between extramarital affairs and infidelity? There is a difference and it’s a subtle one. While extramarital affairs can only happen if marriage exists, infidelity can happen in any romantic relationship where physical intimacy is involved. Read More Extramarital affairs can be defined as relationships outside of marriage where an illicit romantic or sexual relationship or a romantic friendship or passionate attachment occurs. Extramarital affairs can happen between a married person and a single person or it can happen between two married people and it is often termed as adultery. Bonobology has a clutch of stories on extramarital affairs that include ways to deal with your marriage when a partner is cheating, how to know if a partner is cheating and what steps to take, reasons why people have extramarital affairs and how extramarital affairs have helped marriages. There are confession stories and also positive stories of extramarital ever after. There is no place better than here to find out about the extramarital affair scenario in India.">Extra Marital Affairs</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60858"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/affair-cheating/infidelity/" title="What is infidelity? The dictionary meaning of the word is 'the action or state of being unfaithful to a spouse or other sexual partner'. So infidelity happens when a partner cheats in a marriage or a sexual relationship with any other partner. But in the modern era, thanks to the onslaught of the internet, infidelity has taken various forms and is not confined to cheating through physical relationships only. Read More Infidelity can be emotional infidelity and it can be online infidelity when people go into chat rooms and fulfil their sexual fantasies. And someone who is imagining someone else while in bed with his or her partner could also be indulging in infidelity. So with time, the whole definition of infidelity has changed although it continues to be a very common issue among partners. Statistics show that in India 10 out of 7 women cheat on their spouses because they are so bored with their relationships. 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Business trips, office parties, long hours of work and email and text exchanges in the pretext of work make office affairs easier. >Bonobology’s articles on office affairs deal with a gamut of emotions that range from serious affairs, affairs with bosses that did not work out, affairs that turned sour and age-gap affairs that led to passion and romance. There are also plenty of articles on office romance and how “cubicle buddies” turned into life partners. There’s a story for everyone in our office affairs section. ">Office Affairs</a></li></ul></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-706"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/breakups-and-scars/" title="No matter at what point of a relationship a breakup happens it takes a toll on you emotionally. You could have been dating a person for some time or you could have been in a long relationship or you decided to call it quits after a few years of marriage, but the whole feeling that you could not make it work persists after the breakup. Read More It does take your time to move on. Each breakup teaches you a lesson about yourself, about the person you were with and you do carry the scars of a broken relationship even after it’s over. Sometimes the scars can come from abuse in a relationship – a survey revealed 23 per cent of urban Indian women face domestic violence – it could come from emotional and financial abuse, unbearable interference from in-laws or mental or physical incompatibility. Be it a marriage resulting in a divorce or two lovers breaking up, the end of every relationship comes with baggage. One needs to deal with that emotional baggage, heal and finally move on. In this section Bonobology focuses on stories and articles that focus on Breakups and Scars.">Breakups and Scars</a><ul class='children'><li class="cat-item cat-item-60861"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/breakups-and-scars/break-up-and-loss/" title="Breakups do come with a sense of loss. As one article puts it, “If you intensely love someone the pain of a breakup is as excruciating as losing someone to death.” Read More If a relationship or a marriage ends the sense of loss persists for a long time. This is a time when people need immense support from friends, family and some even opt for counselling. Some people plunge into depression and become reclusive and some keep Bollywood breakup songs on the loop. In this section, <Bonobology brings you stories on how people dealt with the sense of loss after a breakup. Some stories are funny, some quirky and some poignant. There is a story where a person says that it was the gym and Jagjit Singh songs that saved the day for him. Another lady says that at a particular traffic signal she still looks for a blue car that belonged to her boyfriend. The breakup comes with extreme pain and we can help you deal with it. ">Break up And Loss</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60862"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/breakups-and-scars/divorced/" title="The divorce rate in India is one of the lowest in the world at 1 per cent. Out of 1000 marriages only 13 ends in divorce. But there is no denying the fact that the number of people opting for divorce has gone up in India in the last decade and more and more people are opting for freedom from the shackles of a bad marriage than to stick on to it because of social compulsion. Read More We can help you by telling you about the step-by-step procedure of a divorce, how to prepare the children for a divorce and the checklists you should go through before you make the final call. Divorce stories at Bonobology are really interesting and give you a peek into reality. While some people talk of the struggles they went through to get their divorce, many women talk about how divorce made them mentally strong and financially independent. There are women who have talked about how setting up their own home after a divorce was the greatest pleasure of their life and there are articles on how men feel lonelier than women after a divorce. Read on.">Divorced</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60860"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/breakups-and-scars/suffering-and-healing/" title="People suffer in relationships. Physical abuse and marital rape are extreme forms of suffering that many people endure in their relationships. But suffering also happens when one partner is extremely selfish, narcissistic or is unaware of a partner’s emotional needs. Years of neglect and constant bickering can also result in a kind of suffering and it takes time to heal. Read More In this section Bonobology shares stories of how people suffered yet, they found the strength to struggle through this phase and then move on. They survived to tell the tale and healed to start a new life. There is the story of the housewife who was almost murdered by her abusive husband but she saved herself and the newly-married bride who found herself locked up by her husband as a sex slave. There are articles on how to move out of toxic relationships and how to deal with issues like “Ghosting” and “Stalking” that are rather traumatic. Browse on to find out more.">Suffering and Healing</a></li></ul></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60863"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/fun-and-masti/" title="What is life without some fun? A relationship is anyway dead if there isn’t a fun element in it. Fun and Masti in relationships as the words denote stand for simple fun and enjoyment. Read More To have some fun and masti in relationships you don’t need to pay through your nose to hit a waterpark or buy tickets to a dance night. You can just get together with friends and have fun. Talking to friends can be fun, just shaking a leg at home to loud music can be masti and packing some homemade sandwiches to a surprise picnic can be enjoyed. In this section Bonobology harps on the simple things that can give you joy in life. It could be a simple day out with the girls or just browsing through some hilarious illustrations that would make you go into peals. We are here to make your life full of fun and masti just go through our tips and put your hair down.">Fun and Masti</a><ul class='children'><li class="cat-item cat-item-9371"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/fun-and-masti/humour/" title="“I love people who make me laugh. I honestly think it's the thing I like most, to laugh. It cures a multitude of ills. It's probably the most important thing in a person.” Audrey Hepburn Read More Without humour, we would be like robots going about our life only with a purpose, with a motive and with no breaks in between. Humour comes with power. The phrase “rolling with laughter” is indeed powerful. Those who can take themselves a bit less seriously and can laugh and smile through life are the winners all the way. They are the ones with the power of humour. And needless to say that humour is great for relationships. At Bonobology we love the virtue of humour and nothing gives us more satisfaction than to make you laugh in the middle of a tedious working day with one of our humorous posts. You have a lot to choose from. Go through our hilarious articles where we talk about the lies men always say to their wives or how retail therapy is the answer to all women’s issues. Go into peals reading about how three adulterous people exchange emails and about the mother-in-law who refused to be a monster mother-in-law. 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What kind of life partner are you? Are you ready to get married? Is your partner risky? (Well the last one is rather interesting!) So what are you waiting to take our quiz?">Quiz</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-83"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/fun-and-masti/quotes/" title="A few words can decide how your day goes, it can decide how you start thinking and it has the power to heal or make you feel better if you are going through a tough time. That’s the power of a quote. Read More The dictionary describes a quote as repeat or copies out (words from a text or speech written or spoken by another person). Somebody else might have said it but you can identify with it and feel alive and happy after reading a quote. That’s why we feel publishing a quote a day is about sharing wisdom and happiness. The quotes are varied. We have Bollywood celebs talking about love, philosophical quotes on love, life, partnership and relationships. Breakups, crushes, thoughts and affairs also figure in our quotes. We even have several quotes on being single, asexual, LGBT or divorced. Every word written in these quotes teaches the reader a small life lesson. That’s why people come back again and again to read the quotes.">Quotes</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-45759"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/fun-and-masti/readers-corner/" title="This is Bonobology’s immensely popular interactive section. Readers come here to share their views on the topics shared by Team Bonobology. Read More This section has been a talking point always because of the bold and relevant topics we have often chosen to discuss. From topics like what women want to what freedom in a relationship means to what it is to love oneself every kind of topic is discussed here. We are very keen to grow this section more and interact with our readers so that we know better what our reader is thinking and how our readers are adapting to the changing Indian society.">Readers' Corner</a></li></ul></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-61466"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/hindi/">Hindi</a><ul class='children'><li class="cat-item cat-item-43146"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/hindi/hindi-quotes/" title="शब्द बहुत ज़रूरी होते हैं मगर सही समय पर सही शब्द हर बार नहीं निकलते. अब हम सब तो ग़ालिब और गुलज़ार नहीं हो सकते हैं न. कई बार मन करता है की किसी को एक छोटे से मैसेज में अपने मन की सबसे गहरी बात कह दें मगर क्या करें, शब्द ही मिलते. हैं न? Read More तो बोनोबोलोजी में हम आपकी मदद के लिए हमेशा बैठे हैं न. खासकर जब बात रिश्तों में अपने मन की कहने की हो. यहाँ हमने नए पुराने, सुने अनसुने कई ऐसे कोट्स का समझ बनाया है जो आप जब चाहें जिसके लिए चाहें इस्तेमाल करें. किसी को प्यार का इज़हार करना हो, किसी से तकलीफ साझा करनी हो, किसी को बस ये कहना हो की "सब ठीक है" कुछ भी मौका हो, यहाँ आपको अपनी स्तिथि के उपयुक्त कुछ तो ज़रूर मिलेगा. कुछ बातें नामचीन लेखकों और कवियों ने कहीं हैं और कुछ आम लोगों ने. चाहे कहा किसी ने भी हो, हमने ये ध्यान रखा है की बातें सभी सटीक और ख़ास हों. सिर्फ दुःख और तकलीफ ही तो नहीं है जो रिश्ते बनाती है, कई मज़ेदार बातें भी तो रिश्तों में रस घोलती हैं. तो आपको वो रस घोलने वाली बातें भी यहाँ मिलेंगी। दिल खोल कर पढ़िए और साझा कीजिये उनसे जिनसे सब कुछ कह दिया और उनसे जिनसे कुछ भी कहना बाकी है.">Hindi Quotes</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-14843"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/hindi/hindi-articles/">In Hindi</a></li></ul></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-3"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/married-life/" title="Do you ever wonder why some people find the perfect person to marry and enjoy a happy married life? On the other hand, some marry a person who is not compatible with them and have marriage failure. So how to live a happy married life? Read More A happy married life doesn’t just happen because you say ‘I do’. It takes efforts from both the husband and the wife to make it work. Our relationship experts offer helpful tips on how to live a happy married life and give practical advice to you to help you deal with common marriage issues. Refer to our Married Life category for real-life insights on marriages, read the Bonobology stories on marriage and relationships and work towards a happy married life.">Married Life</a><ul class='children'><li class="cat-item cat-item-60869"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/married-life/arranged-marriage/" title="India has progressed in leaps and bounds and the dating scene in the country has gone through a sea change but strangely enough arranged marriages are still more popular than love marriages. Indian men get qualifications from universities, have good jobs abroad but they want to get married to a woman their parents would choose. The same goes for highly qualified, established Indian women too. They are also going for arranged marriages because that would provide them with security and parity. Read More It’s truly arranged marriages have a far better survival rate in India than love marriages because in case of arranged marriages the families are involved and they make the decisions in the best interest of the bride and the groom. But arranged marriages are not bereft of issues. Family support often turns into family interference. Sometimes mental and physical compatibility is not achieved and in an arranged marriage sometimes expectations are not met. There are plenty of stories too where brides say how they fell head-over-heels in love with their partners after an arranged marriage and how they have been the pillar to each other through all the ups and downs in life. Savour these arranged marriage stories on Bonobology.">Arranged Marriage</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60870"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/married-life/in-laws/" title="Strangely this very word “in-laws” has mixed reactions and most of the time the reactions are negative. The moment you say “in-laws” an image of an overbearing, interfering, at times rude and at times obsessive, an old couple comes to your mind. Read More There is no doubt that there are plenty of stories on how in-laws, especially the mother-in-law can make a marriage toxic and even if the couple moves out of the house and shifts to another city the demands continue. There are instances of how moms-in-law wrecked marriages and there are confession stories where mothers-in-law accompanied a couple everywhere they went. But Bonobology believes in presenting multiple perspectives of a story, and hence, there are beautiful stories of how women bonded with their moms-in-law and how they achieved because of their support. There is a story of a lady who continued to be best friends with her mother-in-law even after she got divorced. Yes, the in-law stories will keep you hooked.">In-Laws</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60871"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/married-life/loveless-marriage/" title="You might be wondering, how can a marriage be loveless? But it is true. There are plenty of marriages where love never happened or love died after a few years and couples survive their whole lives with the embers. Read More A marriage, as we all know, needs constant work. But sometimes a couple stops working on it and drift away from each other ending up in a loveless marriage. They go about their routine life working, doing household chores or looking after the children but there is hardly any communication between them at the dinner table or in the bedroom. It’s painful to be in a loveless marriage. It’s even more painful when one person is still in love but the other person has moved on. There are no birthday gifts or dinner dates anymore and no emotional support or physical intimacy. A woman writes a letter to her husband telling him how unloved she feels and another woman talks about how marital rape robbed her of the chance to love her man. Another lady said that she wished she never married the man she loved. He was far better as a boyfriend, becoming the husband changed him completely. The stories are striking and varied.">Loveless Marriage</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60872"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/married-life/married-romance/" title="There’s nothing more beautiful than romance in a marriage. Some couples can keep exchanging flowers and say sweet nothings even years after they have tied the knot. How do they do that? You might wonder. Read More It is said that romance often wanes in marriage although love becomes stronger. But how to keep the romance alive? From tricks and tips on staying romantic in marriage to real-life confession stories of couples on their married romance, this section of Bonobology> is an absolute treat. Our tips include ways and mean to make a partner feel wanted, loved and happy. How to arrange surprise dates and surprise travel plans. Couples talk about how they got romantic all over again after the children flew the nest and another couple talk about how they leave love notes for each other. A couple said their romance started 23 years after they got married. That’s truly a romantic tale we would say.">Married Romance</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60892"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/married-life/new-age-couples/" title="He could be the one cooking dinner after a hard day of work at the office and she could be the one earning more than him at the end of the day. It could be his responsibility to get the children ready for school and it could be her responsibility to do the financial planning at home and keep a tab on the investments. Read More Gender roles are changing and so are the social norms that define marriages. That’s why in this New-Age Couples section Bonobology >brings you every kind of story that shows how the Indian marriage is changing, and for the better. There are stories of how men have refused dowry at the time of the marriage and how they have become househusbands to support their wives career aspirations. There are stories of celebrity marriages, how they do the balancing act and how they spend time with family. Both men and women in New-Age Marriages have taken on new roles and have challenged social norms. Our focus is on that. ">New-Age Couples</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60873"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/married-life/pregnancy-and-kids/" title="If marriage is a defining moment in a person’s life wait till you have kids. The arrival of new members in a couple’s life changes the couple dynamics completely. Read More The focus immediately shifts from each other to the child and this is a phase when the bond could become stronger or the issues could start because one spouse might feel neglected while the wife obsesses over the child. Physical intimacy takes a backseat after the arrival of a baby and this also takes a toll on the marriage.Bonobology tells you how to handle the marriage through the pregnancy and kids stage. It’s important to find time for each other and gradually indulge in intimacy despite having a baby in the room. There are funny stories of how to deal with a situation when a child walks into your intimate moment (it’s not so funny though at that point) and how parenting changes the couple dynamics. Read on for some great advice.">Pregnancy and Kids</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60874"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/married-life/second-marriage/" title="Life is about second chances and so are second marriages. It is often said that second marriages work better because people don’t make the same mistakes they made in the first marriage. Second marriage success stories are more. A just-married couple in their 40s gave up smoking so that they could be healthy and have a better life together. In second marriages people are ever grateful for a second chance from life so they make the extra effort to make the marriage work. Read More But second marriage also has its flip side. A second marriage carries the emotional baggage from the first marriage, sometimes there is interference from the ex and sometimes the children involved become a complicated issue. People often struggle more in a second marriage. People are also reluctant to move out of a second marriage because they have already dealt with the emotional stress of the breakdown of the first marriage. So there is a chance for second marriages to get more toxic. Bonobology presents both sides of the second marriage story. ">Second Marriage</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60875"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/married-life/working-on-the-marriage/" title="This is something you hear all the time. You have to work on marriage to make it work. But what does working on marriage mean? It means you have to put in the extra effort all the time to ensure that your partner feels loved and there remains an emotional and physical connect all the time. Read More The stories in this section Working On The Marriage are really interesting. Couples who have been working on the marriage tell us how they have been doing it. Some say the most important gifts that a couple can give each other are time and communication. Then comes the effort to understand each other’s views and eccentricities. While one couple tells us how they rekindled the spark in the marriage by taking a holiday on their own and leaving the kids behind, another lady said how she helped her husband get over his drug addiction. Marriage is always about challenges. How one deals with those challenges is also an integral part of working on the marriage.">Working On the Marriage</a></li></ul></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60876"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/more/">More</a><ul class='children'><li class="cat-item cat-item-60877"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/more/happy-to-help/" title="If there is something we love to do at Bonobology that is we are always happy to help you with your relationship issues. There are tips and advice in each section of the site but if you are particularly browsing through this section then you have come to the right place if you are looking for some really helpful advice on your relationships. Read More Happy To Help has advice for every kind of situation in life. From what you should do on a date to how to handle a situation if a man feels kissing on the first date is perfectly normal and you don’t think the same. There are plenty of articles on how to maintain good health, what food you should have for better sex life and what preventive steps you should take so that your ex-girlfriend does not turn into a stalker. We put together this section solely intending to help our reader navigate through life better. ">Happy To Help</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-274"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/more/lgbtq/" title="LGBTQ is a newly coined all-encompassing term in the community of people whose gender or sexual identities can create shared political and social concerns. “Queer Community” and “Rainbow Community” are few of the other terms used to describe LGBTQ+ people. LGBTQ people are more likely to face mental health problems as a result of the prejudices and biases they have to face. Read More Are you LGBTQ identified? Read the interesting individual experiences of being part of the LGBTQ community in our LGBTQ category and gain confidence by learning that you are not alone. Read interviews of people who are famous and achievers in their fields and how they call themselves LGBTQ with much pride. They share their life stories and advice and suggest the best ways to deal with mainstream society, and they tell us how to find inclusiveness and happiness within it. There are beautiful stories of how a mother came to accept her gay son and how a woman realised she was a lesbian when she could not enjoy physical intimacy with a man she loved. Browse through for some inspiring real-life stories.">LGBTQ</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-275"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/more/live-in-and-open/" title="Physical intimacy and premarital sex have become mainstream over the past few decades, giving rise to live-in and open relationships. The concept of ‘live-in relationships’ has received noticeable approval from the youth as well as from a small broad-minded section of the generation preceding ours. Read More Even a decade back a live-in couple in the neighbourhood would make the neighbours curious but now it is more accepted. Indian youth are also more open to test the waters in a relationship through living in first, before committing marriage. The biggest change we can see in relationships today are most likely the slow but steady acceptance of ‘open marriages’ in the minds of the masses. Men and women are today openly accepting their views towards open marriages and live-in relationships and continuing to live life normally. Jump to our Live-In and Open category to read inspiring pieces that talk about how live-in and open relationships give us freedom to experiment, keep us happy and probably also help reduce the number of failed marriages, as compared to traditional ‘blind’ marriages">Live-in and Open</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-277"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/more/spirituality-and-mythology/" title="Our articles demonstrate how mythology, art and rituals of ancient India can still be applied today regarding the contemporary generation. The Hindu spiritual and mythological landscape is populated by varied characters from the blood-letting Kali to the mysterious Shiva – all of whom provide a distinct perspective regarding relationships. Read More Marriage and married life are one of the ways to attain salvation, although many are not aware of it. To attain this goal, both the partners need to have a certain amount of understanding about leading a married life, coupled with spirituality and mythology of India, right from Tantra to Kama Sutra. Our Spirituality and Mythology section provide a fresh understanding of the Hindu spiritual landscape concerning love, relationships and sexuality. You get to read about the love of Radha and Krishna and Krishna’s relationship with Rukmini. There are brilliant pieces on Shiva and Sati and articles that show you how the teachings of Mahabharata are relevant in modern times. Lesser-known characters like Mandodari, Urmila and Kannaki teach us valuable life lessons too. This section is nothing less than a treasure trove of ancient wisdom on relationships.">Spirituality and Mythology</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-1"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/more/user-blogs/" title="If you love writing and reading and you want to you’re your experiences of dating, marriage, living in a joint family or unusual experiences you have gained in your life you can go to our User Blogs section. Important factors like patience, honesty and realistic relationship goals are all explored honestly and uniquely by our relationship bloggers. Read More Our blogs don’t just provide relationship and marriage advice, there is something for those who are single too. Read our existing blogs for lots of tips, tricks and to learn how to stay ahead in the game of relationships. If you have anything already written or if you are planning to write something on the experience of love/marriage/betrayal/break-up etc. from a couple’s perspective, the best place to upload it would be Bonobology Blogs. These blogs can be poems, stories, observations, narratives, anything related to relationships. You can also link your current blog/website/portfolio from your Bonobology blog and get additional audience to your page. Check out our User Blogs and unleash your passion for writing. You will have no dearth of readers.">User Blogs</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60882"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/more/womensissue/" title="We created this section especially for women because some issues would always remain specific to women. Have you ever thought what it’s like for a woman to sit at her desk and keep working when her body is wracked with menstrual cramps or lactating breasts are feeling like a bundle of stones? Read More In this section, we deal with issues like this and many other interesting topics like what kind of body language should women have in the workplace to avoid misunderstandings by the opposite sex, what they should do about self-love, how should they approach their sexuality and most important discussions on the Big O. Women need to bond with women and retail therapy works for them. There is no need to be apologetic about it. And many other things make a woman happy. For instance, small gestures can work wonders for her. There are also tips for men to bring out the best in their women by understanding them emotionally and physically.">Women's Issue</a></li></ul></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60883"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/relationship-experts/">Relationship Experts</a><ul class='children'><li class="cat-item cat-item-694"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/relationship-experts/expert-speak/" title="The advice provided by our team of Counselling Psychologists, Couple Therapists, Relationship Psychotherapists, Life Coaches, Relationship Coaches, Sex Relationship Experts, Divorce Lawyers, Sexologists and Psychoanalysts will ensure your relationship stays healthy. Browse our Expert Speak category and see what our relationship experts have to say on love, sex, marriage, dating, parenting, building better relations in the workplace and improving your interpersonal relationships with the opposite sex. Read More Find valuable relationship tips and insights from professional relationship experts at Bonobology to help you start or sustain your relationship. Refer to our website and read the country’s top love experts offering their best relationship advice. The articles in this section are varied and informative. Our experts tell you in every possible detail about things like body language mistakes we all make, everything about emotional and financial abuse, about pros and cons of live-in and open relationships, about clingy relationships and the steps you can take if your partner is cheating. There are detailed articles on pre and post-divorce procedure both legal and social aspects, and plenty on the rights of the LGBTQ community. Read and be aware.">Expert Speak</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-45712"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/relationship-experts/live-chat-with-experts/" title="This is another section packed with information that you can put to use every day in your life. In Live Chat With Experts, you can ask your questions on video chat, but confidentiality is maintained, and the expert will answer all your questions. Later the video is uploaded on Bonobology site so that you can view the entire chat again. Read More In the live chats, experts answer very pertinent questions. For instance, women sometimes tend to neglect their health because they are so engrossed in handling home and work and ignore the signs that often leads to minor health issues snowballing into major ones. Celebrity nutritionist Suman Agarwal says what women should do to take care of their health. Counselor Snigdha Mishra talks about the issues women face when they are working from home and how men should also take the initiative to do the chores at home. Prachi Vaish talks about how to deal with a husband who is a momma's boy. The topics covered are really interesting. ">Live Chat with Experts</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60886"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/relationship-experts/my-questions-and-answers/" title="This section is one of the areas of our website that sees the most amount of traffic every day. People are always coming to this section with their questions that is why we have our inbox full all the time and we forward those questions to the counsellor, who writes back with specific advice to a specific question. Complete confidentiality is always maintained. Read More Our greatest satisfaction comes when our readers write back saying that they followed the relationship advice and it brought positive results. We have seen that many people write in multiple times because they depend so much on our counsellor’s advice to show them the right path. My Question and Answers is a section that allows one to ask a question that probably he or she would not be able to ask anyone else – a friend, a family member or a colleague. They feel comfortable discussing their issues with our expert because they provide the most objective solution to a problem and at the same time provide complete confidentiality. Now that we have launched our paid service, after asking the first question and getting an expert answer, satisfied readers are opting for our paid counselling services. Usually, many people do not go for counselling because they are too shy to walk into a psychiatrist’s office or they have to traverse long distances to access a counsellor. We provide a service by which a reader can make an appointment with a counsellor who would do a counselling session over skype. This unique concept is working wonders.">My Questions and Answers</a></li></ul></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-5"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/sex-passion/" title="Some admit it, some won’t, but all are aware that sex and passion are as integral to a relationship, as emotional bonding. A relationship is healthy if there is both sexual and emotional compatibility. Read More Going on dates, holidays, binge-watching Netflix or spending quality time with the children have a very positive effect on the sense of well being of a person, but what kind of action one is having between the sheets also goes a long way to create a bonding between two individuals. How two people are conveying and communicating their sexual needs says a lot about what kind of a long-term relationship they will have. Sometimes this wrong idea is perpetuated that as long as emotional bonding is there sex is not important. But that is a wrong thing that a couple can believe in. If there is no effort to sustain sex then inevitably the relationship would fizzle out at some point. In this category, we explore both passion and sexlessness a reality that plagues many people. Do check out the sections Sexless Marriage, Great Sex and Spice It Up to understand this topic.">Sex and Passion</a><ul class='children'><li class="cat-item cat-item-60887"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/sex-passion/great-sex/" title="People who can unleash their passion in the bedroom and find compatibility in their partners can talk about Great Sex. Read More But great sex does not always happen with the steady partner or the person you are married to. As the stories in Bonobology tell us the best sex could be experienced in a one-night stand, with an ex who suddenly came back to one’s life or with the partner as well on a sudden unplanned holiday where the children are left behind with the grandparents. The articles point out that in a marriage Great Sex is not about just achieving the Big O it is about understanding each other’s body and needs better, understanding the erotic zones, the importance of touch and the willingness to experiment with positions and techniques. Bonobology’s stories on Great Sex are eye-openers and can help people who are struggling with waning sexual desire in long-term relationships. ">Great Sex</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60888"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/sex-passion/sexless-marriage/" title="A portal did a survey in Indian cities on sexual satisfaction in marriages. 72 per cent women said that they were sexually dissatisfied while 98 per cent men said they were happy with their sex lives. Read More Sexless Marriage is a glaring reality in India, a reality that is rarely talked about openly. At Bonobology we have articles and confession stories where people talk about their dead bedroom. Wives talk about how they remained virgins even after two years of marriage and men talk about how they started looking for sexual gratification outside the marriage because they were so fed up with their unresponsive wives in bed. Dead bedrooms happen when there is a complete lack of communication of sexual needs between a couple. Sometimes men have issues with erection, sometimes women have issues like frigidity but they rarely go to a doctor or a counsellor to address the problems. People continue in sexless marriages because they cannot do away with the financial security, sometimes they think about the children and they are brought up with the mindset that sex is just for reproduction it has nothing to do with gratification. So a sexless marriage is justified and it survives.">Sexless Marriage</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60889"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/sex-passion/spice-it-up/" title="Ever heard of something called “Edging”? It’s something like you are approaching orgasm and then you turn back. Again you build up the pace. When finally you reach the climax it’s a mindboggling feeling. Read More Guess that is what we mean when we talk about spicing up your sex life. The section Spice It Up is all about filling up on knowledge and techniques to spice up your bedroom sessions. There are handy tips, expert views and confession stories where they talk about different ways in which they spiced it up. We tell you about the best positions to use for maximum pleasure, how to use candles and aroma to create the mood in your bedroom and how outdoor sex could be tantalizing. People talk about their experiments with BDSM, sex toys, foods that boost sexual drive and doing simple things like warming up together in a shower. This section has everything you need to pep up your sex life. Just browse through the articles and spice it up.">Spice It Up</a></li></ul></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-2"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/single-dating/" title="At a time when ‘defining your relationship status’ is more complicated than ever, our fresh and fun approach to dating will instil a new level of confidence in you, and create excitement and positivity as you explore the modern dating landscape. Read More Bonobology guides you on how to enjoy being single and what your dating expectations must be. Dating is different these days and the traditional rules just don’t seem to always apply. Read on to enrich yourself with real-life experiences, anecdotes and tips on how to enjoy the single life and prepare yourself for your date.">Single and Dating</a><ul class='children'><li class="cat-item cat-item-60890"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/single-dating/dating-experience/" title="At a time when ‘defining your relationship status’ is more complicated than ever, our fresh and fun approach to dating will instil a new level of confidence in you and create excitement and positivity as you explore the modern dating landscape. Bonobology guides you on how to enjoy being single and what your dating expectations must be. Read More Dating is different these days and the traditional rules just don’t seem to always apply. That’s why you need to check out our dating tips. Learn more about things like “Exclusive Dating” or how to deal with “Ghosting”. Read on to enrich yourself with real-life experiences, anecdotes and tips on how to relish the single life and prepare yourself for your date. We are proud to say that we have a fascinating array of articles on dating which include a lot of dating tips too. Our articles tell you how to make a date special, what to expect when you are dating someone, how to tell your parents you are seeing someone and how to look at the red flags and realize if the person is abusive, clingy or could be a future stalker. Dating is fun and it gives you a gamut of experiences. We have covered everything.">Dating experience</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60891"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/single-dating/friendship/" title="“If you live to be 100, I hope I live to be 100 minus 1 day, so I never have to live without you.” – Winnie the Pooh Guess the definition of friendship can’t be more beautiful than this. Friends are an integral part of our life who make us laugh, who hold our hand in times of need and who accepts us just the way we are. They know our past and present and are as excited as us about our future. Read More It’s them we turn to in times of upheaval or if we just need someone to talk to. So when we are talking about relationships it is unfair to leave out something as important as friendship. But friendship is an integral part of a romantic relationship as well. It is common to see best friends becoming lovers and then life partners. As Oscar Wilde puts it: “Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or friendship, is the conversation.” So here in this section, we have beautiful articles on the friendship that could become part of your conversations.">Friendship</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60895"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/single-dating/love-and-romance/" title="Love and romance are the most important part of couple relationships. Both need to walk hand in hand for a relationship to last long. When romance is gone from love what we have is complacency. Read More Romance is usually at its best when two people are dating and then reaches a crescendo at the honeymoon and the year after that and then it starts waning. The problem is many people believe romance happens just like love but that is a wrong perception. Romance needs efforts to keep the spark alive in the relationship. If you don’t take romance seriously you take the love for granted and then love becomes stagnant and many people start looking for a way out instead of working on the romance. Bonobology talks about love and romance at length and we tell you what exactly you should do to keep the romance alive in your relationship. So that despite a demanding job, handling kids, family duties, you would give your all to romance. Browse and find out more.">Love and Romance</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60893"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/single-dating/one-sided-love/" title="Love is not always about reciprocation. One-sided love or unrequited love is a reality that many people experience or many people have lived with all their life. As they say, it hurts when you have someone in your heart but you can’t have them in your arms. Read More When you fall for someone and that person does not feel the same about you then it breaks your heart but you keep loving that person with the broken pieces of your heart. That’s painful. One-sided love pains, it could ruin you but it is something that often becomes your obsession. Many people have experienced one-sided love and although they realize that they need to move on and find a life for themselves, most often they can’t. We tell you how to move on from unrequited love or the steps you can take to ensure the one you love falls for you too. Depending on the situation you need to take your call and we are always there to help.">One -Sided Love</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60896"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/single-dating/online-dating/" title="Online dating takes the world of dating to a whole new dimension. Online dating has re-invented dating in the modern world. You might find the love of your life in the virtual world and settle down to a life of happy harmony and you might also come across frauds, stalkers and abusers waiting to pounce on you in the dating world. Read More So we also talk about online dating dangers on dating sites, fake dating profiles and the menace of stalking. Read our stories in the Online Dating section where we share both the pros and cons of the online dating scenario. We provide you with valuable information that would help you to stay on guard but at the same time, you can navigate through online dating sites without fear or inhibitions. The stories in this section are varied and interesting. While some people talk about how they found their life partners through online dating there are stories of how people were conned by fake profiles. There are plenty of articles that discuss the dos and don’ts of online dating. Browse through this information-packed section.">Online Dating</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60894"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/single-dating/single-life/" title="There is a tendency in India to judge single people. They are looked at with pity and sympathy because it is presumed that a life partner eluded them. But what people often don’t realize that many people in India are now single by choice and they just love their single life. Read More And this is all the truer because India has a growing population of single women. In the 2011 Census, it was seen that single women in the age group of 25-29 increased by 68 per cent between 2001 and 2011 in rural areas. The situation is the same in urban areas. There are 12.3 million single women who never married. The stories in this section are helpful, humorous and motivating where single people share their experiences of living alone. They share the fun, fulfilment and at times loneliness and the judgment from a society that they have to face. Explore this section to know what single life is all about for Indian men and women.">Single Life</a></li></ul></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-12814"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/trending/" title="Which celebrity couple broke up? Who moved in with whom? Which is the latest dating app in town? Who is getting married to the hottest woman on earth? Who is the perfect man to date? Learn all of this and much more in our Trending Category. Read More Want to know what the hot Trending relationship topics and popular Relationships stories are? Whether you’ve been together for one week, one month or one year, our interesting articles on the hottest trending topics will help make your relationship last the distance. Browse our Trending category and read the latest trending stories on celebrities, politicians and paparazzi. Check out the latest trending topics on relationships. Read the interesting trending pieces and learn how they affect our relationships.">Trending</a><ul class='children'><li class="cat-item cat-item-695"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/trending/celeb-corner/" title="A relationship website is incomplete without celebs. Celebrity relationships form the focal point of Celeb Corner but we approach the relationships from an analytical perspective. It’s a treasure trove of interviews, articles, shocking confession stories and beautiful celeb meet up stories that form this section. Read More From onscreen to off-screen, the celebs in tinsel town are found flaunting their live-in relationships, their extramarital affairs, their age-gap relationships and their long-term marriages. Some of Bollywood’s biggest stars make love look easy. At Bonobology we share with you their tricks for helping romance thrive year after year. We bring to you articles on celebrity relationships that help you restore your faith in love. If you’re in a relationship or looking for one, here’s some solid advice from a few of our favourite celebrity couples who have mastered the art of love. Browse our Celebs Corner for the best celebrity relationship stories, proposal stories, weddings and marriages, as well as all the latest on celebrity breakups, hook-ups, flirtations and rekindled romances.">Celeb Corner</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60897"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/trending/trending-topics/" title="Which celebrity couple broke up? Who moved in with whom? Which is the latest dating app in town? Who is getting married to the hottest woman on earth? Who is the perfect man to date? What is the new social media lingo when you are dating? Learn all of this and much more in our Trending Topics section. Read More Want to know what the hot trending relationship topics and popular relationship stories are? Whether you’ve been together for one week, one month or one year, our interesting articles on the hottest trending topics will help make your relationship traverse the distance. Browse our Trending Topics section and read the latest trending stories on celebrities, politicians and paparazzi. And be sure to find the other perspective here too. For instance, when everyone was talking about the misogyny of the film Kabir Singh we had a lady who talked about how she wanted to be with a man like Kabir Sigh. The article broke the internet. Find more such articles right here.">Trending Topics</a></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-60898"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/trending/zodiac/" title="Whether people believe it or not but they are always interested in this – zodiac signs we mean. Readers come back, again and again, to check articles on zodiac signs. Read More You might not find your daily horoscope here according to your zodiac sign but what you will find here are personality traits and relationship compatibility according to your sun signs that are written from a very appealing and fascinating perspective. There are articles on particular zodiac signs and how they would fare as boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands or wives. Find out about the zodiac sign traits of each sign and be prepared to navigate a relationship accordingly. We also tell you which zodiac signs are the best performers in the bedroom, who have the most anger issues, who make the best investigators and who have the most expensive tastes. You can find out a lot about your own relationship if you browse through these zodiac sign stories. ">Zodiac</a></li></ul></li><li class="cat-item cat-item-6"><a href="https://www.bonobology.com/category/videos/" title="Our relationship videos provide tips and advice on a range of relationship topics. 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