I am a 28-year-old woman and I’ve been married for 2 years. However, even after two years, my husband has not established any physical relationship with me. Whenever I ask him the reason, he always tells me that he doesn’t feel any attraction towards me. I am trying very hard to save my marriage but I know without any physical intimacy, it would be very difficult for our marriage to survive.
And it is not just about physical intimacy, he has no emotional connect with me either. He hardly shares his feelings with me. If I pester him a little, he gets aggressive.
I don’t know what to do. We are in the same house and still he plans to get a separate bedroom for himself. I don’t want to fall in love with anyone else while I am still married. But then I can’t even imagine getting divorced from my husband. I really love him and I don’t want to leave him, but I don’t know what to do. Please suggest.
Mallika Pathak says:
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