My husband sexts with others, doesn’t talk to me or the kids. What do I do?

Husband says he earns for the children, but won't spend time with them. He won't spend time with me either.
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Dear ma’am,

I have been married for the past 8 years and have 2 kids. My husband is never interested in me. We never talk about anything. We speak only when there is some work to be done. I recently found out about my husband sexting. When I confronted him he just told me that he was doing it so that our relationship improves. Never was he sorry for his behaviour. I took it at face value and tried to put things behind me and try all over again but things haven’t improved. He is still the same. He refuses to talk to me. When I ask if anything is bothering him, he doesn’t tell me. He loves the children, but will not do anything to take care of them. He always says he’s earning for them; the remaining things I have to do. I’m confused, should I stay in this loveless marriage and live each day being alone?

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Mallika Pathak says:


A relationship without communication is almost like a relationship that does not exist. Yet, as emotional creatures we wait for changes in our current circumstances to happen; even small minute ones. Your situation is difficult, as there is also

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  1. I agree with Shiv. I would just add: divorce your husband and suck as much money as you can. There is no way such irresponsible behavior could be acceptable. But do yourself a honor: do not cheat as long as you are married to him. After marriage all bets are off.

  2. Give your husband two options, tell him that either he ups his game as a husband and a father, or else your walking out the door with the kids. Cause if the dad is emotionally unavailable then there is no necessity for him to be physically present.

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