Inappropriate Relationship: It’s not okay to fancy your cousin

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I am a married man< In love with my married cousin< We used to hug and kiss as teenagers<

Is this an inappropriate relationship?

Now we talk on WhatsApp and she says she misses me< I want to hold her again< Is it wrong to fancy a cousin?< Is it a taboo and called incest?< But I really want to be with her< Please tell me how to take the step.< Counsellor Mallika Pathak says: <As much as I understand that we can’t filter our feelings< There is always the question of appropriateness and inappropriateness< Touching and hugging as teenagers may be due to infatuation and curiosity< The sexual impulse right now will only lead to more complications< Are you in an emotionally and physically satisfying relationship with your spouse?< I would recommend that you seek professional help so as to process the feelings< And cope in a healthier manner<

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