I tūtaki ahau ki a Supriya i runga i tētahi pae whakaipoipo; i mua ko māua tahi i te roanga o te rā ahakoa te tawhiti – I Mumbai ahau, i tētahi tāone i UP ia. Ka kōrero māua mō ngā hāora i runga waea, ka tuku karere kuputuhi hoki, ā, kāore i aha te tawhiti o māua tetahi i tetahi. I tino pai te haere o ngā mea tae noa ki te whakatau māua ki te tūtaki, kātahi ka tīmata te heke o te pai o ngā mea katoa.
I hiahia ia ki te tūtaki ki Delhi
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I haere a Supriya ki Delhi ki te kite i ōna whanaunga, ā, i whakaaro ia he mea pai kia tūtaki ki reira. Koinei tā māua tūtakitanga tuatahi, ā, i harikoa ahau. Ahakoa kāore au i te rawaka i taua wā, i hiahia ahau kia kite i a ia ahakoa pēhea. Nō reira i nama moni ahau i ētahi hoa. I taea e au te kohi i te Rs 1,500, i hoko i tētahi tīkiti mō te pahi whānui, kātahi ka wehe atu ki Delhi. He wero te haere i roto i tētahi wāhi pahi whānui, engari i taea e au te tūtaki ki taku wahine e aroha nei. I tūtaki tuatahi ahau ki a Supriya i tētahi whare kawhe. I noho tahi māua i te rā katoa. Nui te harikoa.

I tūtaki ahau ki ōna mātua
I kōrero mai a Supriya ki ahau me kite ahau i ōna mātua I te aonga ake, ka karanga mai i ahau kia tina ki te kāinga o tōna whanaunga. I ara wawe ahau, ā, ka kakahuria; te āhua nei kāore te wā i pahemo. I harikoa ahau, ā, ki te kōrero pono atu ki a koe, he paku mataku anō hoki. He tino reka te tina, ā, ka huihui mai ngā tamariki ki ahau, ka karanga mai i ahau ko "Jiju Jiju". He pai te āhua. Kātahi ka puta te pātai whakamate.
I ohorere tōna whānau i te rongonga i tōku rā whānau
Kāore māua i te kotahi te kāwai. I kōrero mai a Supriya kua whakatenatena ia i ōna mātua, ā, e pai ana rāua ki te rerekētanga o te kāwai. Ināianei ka pātai mai tōna koroua: "E tama, tēnā koa, tohaina mai tō rā whānau, tō wā, me tō wāhi?" I tohaina atu e au, ā, i taku kitenga i te rā whānau, ka tīmata te mataku o te whānau katoa. I tino pāngia ahau e te mataku. I rongo ahau i tōna koroua e kōrero ana ki tōna pāpā me tōna whaea kēkē, ā, ka mea ia, "Tekau mā rima ngā rā te iti ake o te tama i te kōtiro."
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Kāore i taea te whakaae i te marena
I mea tōna koroua kāore i te whakaaetia i roto i tō rātou iwi te tuku i tētahi kōtiro marenatia he tama i teina i a ia Ahakoa he 15 noa iho ngā rā i muri mai, he mea nui tonu. I ohorere ahau. I mamae ahau, i taku whakaaro he kuware rawa tēnei i ēnei rā. Kāore au i te mārama ki ngā mea e tupu ana. I haere ahau ki te whare tira, ā, i te aonga ake ka haere ki Mumbai. Kāore au i whai wā ki te kōrero ki a Supriya mō tetahi mea, ā, kāore hoki au i hiahia ki te kōrero pērā nā te mea i tino whakama ahau. I mahara ahau kei te rapu rātou i tētahi take kia kaua e tukua te marena kia puta. I muri i taku hokinga ki Mumbai, kāore a Supriya i hono atu, ā, kua ngaro rawa atu ia i te tirohanga.
I ohorere ahau i a Supriya
I muri i te marama kotahi, kātahi ka waea mai a Supriya ki ahau. I mea ia kei te haere mai ia ki Mumbai. I ohorere ahau i taku rongonga i tēnā. I kī atu ahau, "Āe." I eke a Supriya ki te rererangi tuatahi i taea e ia te eke mai i Delhi, ā, i haere mai ia. I manaaki ahau i a ia i te taunga rererangi, ā, i haria ia ki te kāinga. I ngana tōna whānau ki te kimi i a mātou, engari i te wā i kitea ai mātou, kua haere māua ki te tari rēhita, ā, kua moe ture māua. I noho ahau i roto i tētahi whare iti, engari i pai a Supriya. I tautoko ia.
Kātahi ka tīmata te raruraru
I toro mai tōna whānau ki tō mātou whare, ā, ka tīmata te akiaki i a Supriya kia whakarērea ahau. Engari i tū atu a Supriya, ā, i mea atu ki a rātou, mēnā kei te pirangi rātou ki te pokanoa ki ō mātou oranga, kaua rātou e whakaatu anō i ō rātou kanohi. He pai te haere o ngā mea i roto i tō mātou ao. te oranga o te wahine marena hou tae noa ki te wā i pakaru ai te moemoeā i tētahi waea. I waea mai te māmā o Supriya ki te kī kua pāngia tōna tungāne e tētahi aituā kino, ā, ka eke ia ki te rererangi i muri mai ki Delhi.
He mahi tinihanga noa iho tēnei
I tinihanga rātou i a ia, ā, ka haria a Supriya ki tētahi wāhi ngaro. I waea tonu ahau ki ōna mātua, ā, kāore rātou i homai he kōrero mō tōna wāhi noho. Nā te aha rā i huna ai a Supriya i ahau. Kātahi ka whakatau ahau ki te haere ki Delhi ki te rapu i a ia. I haere ahau ki reira, i tūtaki ki ōna hoa, ā, i tono atu ki a rātou kia āwhina i ahau.
I muri i taku ngana mō ētahi rā, kāore au i te mōhio, ā, kāore i kitea ia e au. I pouri ahau, i pouri, ā, i whakaaro ahau ki te whakapā atu ki ngā pirihimana i te wā i waea mai ai tētahi o ana hoa ki ahau, me te kī mai kei roto a Supriya i tōna kāinga, me tere taku whakapā atu ki a ia. I oma atu ahau ki tōna whare ki te tiki i a ia.
I puritia a Supriya e tōna whānau i tētahi wāhi tūmatanui – he whare pāmu i waho o te tāone – ā, i taea e ia te mawhiti. Whai muri i tēnei mahi, ka whakatau mātou ki te neke ki tētahi atu tāone. Kāore anō mātou kia kōrero ki ōku hungawai tō mātou wāhi noho hou, ā, kua kitea e mātou te rangimārie. Me i kore ahau i pā ki tēnei mea katoa i roto i tōku ake ao, kua whakaaro ahau he mea noa iho ēnei mea e tupu ana i roto i ngā kiriata.
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