I am having a hard time with my spouse in understanding his needs and sorting out my own life. He is extremely negative. I have been married for 9 years and he has never appreciated me or my looks; whereas everyone outside always does so. Also when I am not earning, he says I am supporting you, but when I actually start working his behaviour completely changes. He keeps disturbing me and then I have to leave my job. Currently I am a homemaker, I need help on how to deal with a man like this and hence writing to you.
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Snigdha Mishra says:
Lack of compatibility in a marriage is common, although over