Question:
I am married since the past 10 years and it is a love marriage but my husband is not interested in sex. He thinks sex is okay but we don’t have to think about it so much. We normally have it once in 10 days. A hard discussion about it leads to a bitter quarrel and I am not able to understand what should be done to convince him. Please help.
Thank you.
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Dr Avani Tiwari says:
Some people may think of sex as a taboo topic which is not to be alluded to. Hence the reluctance to think about or discuss it. It looks like there is also a mismatch in frequency, which, though very irritating can be very normal. If ‘hard’ discussions lead to quarrels, try going soft. Take the initiative, lead from the front. Make sure desire killing factors like stress, fatigue are well taken care of. He’s sure to be convinced more by action than by talk.
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