I am heartbroken. My husband lied to me saying that he went to a dinner party with managers whereas, actually he went with the whole team including junior team members. I asked him why he lied to me and he blamed me back. He said, “I lied because you are not comfortable with me going out with freshers and juniors, but with managers you are okay.” Now I am not able to trust him any more. I feel he must be sleeping around with girls but not telling me. I am not able to forgive him for that.
Second, he has not approached me sexually for quite a long time for like 2 months or so. I am pregnant and my doctor had asked not to have sex but he didn’t say no to cuddling and hugging. Even that my husband won’t do. I wonder why my husband does not approach me for intimacy. I told him many times, “Let’s make the first kid sleep in corner and you sleep in the middle”, but he doesn’t.
I feel my husband is cheating on me, I stopped talking to him because whatever he says, I feel he is lying to me. Please help me.
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Prachi Vaish says:
From the limited information that you have sent in, I really do feel