Newly married but unable to get proper erections, I am in big trouble

He worries that his masturbation has spoilt his ability to get proper erections
worried man sitting on the bed

Dear Ma’am,

I am a 27-year-old man. I am have been masturbating since the last 5-6 years. Due to that my penis is bent towards the left side and the shape is not round now. I am not able to get proper erection even after good foreplay. So my wife doesn’t feel anything. I am newly married. I am in big trouble. Please help.

Did this happen because I used to masturbate?

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Dr Sharmila Majumdar says:

Hello New Husband,

Masturbation is healthy: It has nothing to do with the shape of your penis. No penis is absolutely ninety degrees perpendicular to the body. It’s always [restrict] naturally inclined, slightly towards the left or right depending on your genetic inheritance.

Your worries are affecting your performance: I think your anxiety to perform or the feeling that you are unable to satisfy your wife is playing foul rather than any physical cause. To rectify issues with your sexual health, it’s most important to stay composed and consult a specialist at the earliest.

Consult a sexologist to rule out any problem. If you have a good sexologist in your city please them consult in person. Please relax and do not worry as your problem is treatable.

All the very best to you,
Dr Sharmila


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