In a happy marriage but blue and bitter? Wondering about the boundaries of marriage? Our expert speaks...

Having compassion for yourself and seeking help, or understanding the changing construct of marriage...psychologist Deepak Kashyap provides expert advice for your relationship issues

Team Bonobology | Posted on 21 Mar 2016
Of bitterness and boundaries in marriage

I am 32, my husband is 29. In the eyes of the world, we are hot, happening and madly in love with each other. Both of us are successful in our careers. And yet, why is it that every morning when I wake up, I feel this bitterness? 

If, you are largely happy with your husband, your marriage and your profession, and you are not able to sort of put a finger on when and why the blues started, it might be a mild form of depression that you might be facing.

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Do you think marriage is restrictive? Does it have boundaries? If at all then what should determine them?

As humans, we all have boundaries, but not all of the boundaries are the same. So we have to constantly negotiate to find a mutually agreeable common ground. All in all, I think both: social support system and personal respect and love contribute to a successful marriage, but the latter plays a bigger role than ever before.  

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