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Why did no man ever say to her “I love you, I need you…”
a woman deep in thought

Simran and Neha are sisters separated by miles for over 12 years now. Both women, in their early 40s, have been trying to maintain their connect through sending each other daily letters. Simran is an Ophthalmologist and Neha is a Geophysicist.

Dear Neha,

I was discussing work with Vinay today. We are planning on expanding the clinic and he had once mentioned that he would like to invest. So I spoke with him at length and he seems to be excited about the expansion. If all goes well, the new clinic will be up and running by end of this year. Ah! The benefits of having school friends as investors. It’s nice that I have him around to share and bounce things off.

As I was about to disconnect the call, I did ask him that one question I’ve had in my head for sometime, which I mentioned to you as well in yesterday’s letter. I asked Vinay, “Why don’t men share their emotions? Why don’t they tell the women in their lives what they feel?

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  1. Damn! i had tears in my eyes. The story, its ending left me longing for more. Being emotionally expressive is not everyone’s cup of tea. But then every single human heart longs to be validated verbally. That’s why i strongly believe that we must put that effort to express our love. Because, life is too short to lose the love we deserve.

  2. I do not know why? but this story is not something to just read and scroll away. I, genuinely, felt bad about her. She is such a lonely person. The last lines just left me in pain. GO PATCH UP WITH HIM, HE IS YOUR MAN is what I will love to scream.

  3. “Somewhere, miles away, someone she had forgotten, spent that night flipping through his diary wondering how to tell her that he loved her”- What an ending. This is so true. I mean we long for a person who would take care of us or at least say that they care but may be there is someone who silently does and we don’t know. Simran’s story is a great example of modern day loneliness syndrome where we tend to enjoy loneliness although we whine about it. I am sure Simran goes through a lot everyday but I would advice her not to be sceptical about life and start trusting again.

  4. I feel it happens due to mis-communication. Males love can be felt from their actions not from their words. Moreover both when in relationship fails to accept each other and tries to change each other. It starts getting the situation worsen. Sex also creates problem. Sometimes one of the partners shows as if obliging other one who took initiative is labelled as he or she does not have any other work other than sex. Sex is the blood of the married life. Success of married life depends not only on the basis of understanding but how both deals with their misunderstandings.

  5. At certain point in our lives we all feel the need to be loved and accepted the way we want. Someone to tell us “I love you, need you, you are beautiful”!!! But, in reality it’s still a feeling…a thought…a need…!!! Lucky are those who get those compliments and acceptance. I strongly feel and believe we need to be vocal about our feelings…it helps.

    Dr. Paveen

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