Our sex life is zero as my husband has severe backache

I feel my husband has lost interest in me. I want my loving husband back.
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Dear Ma’am,

I have read many solutions by you on the website and I hope you can solve my problem too.

I am a 34-year-old married woman. We have been married for 13 years. Our sex life is zero for the past seven years. It is because my husband has a severe back problem. A backache doesn’t allow him to engage in any sexual acts.

His back pain is due to his long sitting schedule. The doctor said to check and reduce the long sitting hours. He tried some exercises, but we saw no improvement. He has to sit for long in front of the computer for his work. I don’t know what to do. We had many arguments.

I told him many times that I feel you lost interest in me and this feeling gives me immense pain. But he always says that there is nothing is like that. That our problems are only due to his backache and that’s why he couldn’t express sexual interest. Ma’am, please help me. I want my loving husband back.

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Dr. Sharmila Majumdar says:

Dear lady,

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  1. This piece was really helpful for my Aunt… She was going through something similar since her husband had a back surgery..She tried communicating her anxieties with him and they have eventually broken the dry spell. Thank you Team Bonobology!

  2. I like the fact that women come out and speak about their sex life on this open platform.. What Ilike more is that they are attended by professionals in such a sensitive and responsible manner.. I am sure this piece will help many others who might be going through similar problems..

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