Single and Dating

She has no regrets being single

She enjoys her successful single life and does not have any regrets that she's not in a committed relationship
Happy single woman smiling

(As told to Joie Bose)

Why I love being single

It is an anomaly to love yourself is the general notion, but frankly my dear, I don’t give a damn. I don’t give a damn about the world and I love myself immensely. That is why there are so many rumours about me. It is not that I don’t wish that people had nice things to say about me, but I always weigh the price I will have to pay for it. And the price is, pretence. Thus, it is not worth it. I am single, financially independent and emotionally stable. My existence is outrageous.

I have never believed in romantic love. I think it is eyewash. No two people can selflessly be there for each other. It is always a trade. I trade my body or my persona for the care of someone, every time I commit myself to someone. The first time I was in a relationship, it was rather sour.

He only wanted sex

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4 Comments

  1. Being single is absolutely freaking amazing. You can do whatever you want whenever you want without having to compromise, every pizza is a personal pizza, and you never have to deal with in-laws :P.

    Being single allows you to experience so much that is often simply not possible when subjected to the financial and emotional pressures of supporting and maintaining a relationship.

  2. If you get one creepy soul just worried about sex that doesn’t mean love is dead( if even after taking out his thing the guy is interested in you and make love, thats something beyond sex ) if out of your wish he is forcing you for sex thats just a rape and if you allow that so don’t think yourself as victim.
    There are lot of healthy and great relations out there who literally are devoted for each other “they think of their partner first” and its of-course not about sex, down the line 20 year from now the beauty will fade away ,they body will be full or wrinkles and that time only love will survive.

    Of -course every one have post breakup situation, some people drink, some people date lot of persons ,some even become detached to the materialist world, that what i guess you are in to (i know my perception won’t bother you) but that is just a temporary thing.

    About salary and guy who matches your profile and status then i believe you are doing the same mistake which guys have been doing from ages.

    Gender discrimination or biased i would say “if girl is not earning well that ok for getting married why not say for the guy/or if girl is earning much better then that shouldn’t bother girl as well.

    Its good to be indepanted irrespective of gender and same time its good to find love in people place things or even God and self love is always there as human being we are the most selfish creature of the planet.

  3. If you get one creepy soul just worried about sex that doesn’t mean love is dead( if event after taking out his thing the guy is interested in you and make love ) if out of your wish he is forcing you for sex thats just a rape and if you allow that so don’t think yourself as victim.
    There are lot of healthy and great relations out there who literally are devoted for each other “they think of their partner first” and its of-course not about sex, down the line 20 year from now the beauty will fade away ,they body will be full or wrinkles and that time only love will survive.

    Of -course every one have post breakup situation, some people drink, some people date lot of persons ,some even become detached to the materialist world, that what i guess you are in to (i know my perception won’t bother you) but that is just a temporary thing.

    About salary and guy who matches your profile and status then i believe you are doing the same mistake which guys have been doing from ages.

    Gender discrimination or biased i would say “if girl is not earning well that ok for getting married why not say for the guy/or if girl is earning much better then that shouldn’t bother girl as well.

    Its good to be indepanted irrespective of gender and same time its good to find love in people place things or even God and self love is always there as human being we are the most selfish creature of the planet.

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