Affair and Cheating

Signs when a friendship becomes a ready ground for an affair

Let's Discuss Infidelity, an initiative of Bonobology, raised a crucial question and members responded with interesting answers
Woman has an affair

Infidelity is on the rise. According to counsellors and relationship experts at Bonobology, 7 out of every 10 relationship queries are about an extramarital affair, with either the person or their spouse accused of transgression. Most often, the seed of future infidelity is sown in an innocent friendship in the present, through college reunions, mutual Facebook friends, or simply a WhatsApp forward from a person you have met at a party.

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Any signs of when a friendship is turning into something more which then becomes a ripe ground for an affair? What should two people in such a friendship watch out for?

Responses from members of Bonobology group Let’s Discuss Infidelity.

Affair or Friendship?

Beginning of an affair


An affair takes moments to start

Cheating the spouse

Hiding an affair

Need love more than spouse

How many of these do you agree with?
 Is friendship actually a vulnerable ground for a future affair?  Do let us know in the comments below.

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  1. Yes friendships can lead to affairs if the involved people don’t keep within limits. Dependency and hiding things from your spouse are signs that you should look out for.

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