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The married man I was dating is now flirting with other girls

He told me I was special to him, but now he is chasing other girls too
An upset woman sitting alone

Question:

Hello Doctor,

I fell for this married man two years ago. Although I never wanted him to leave his wife he made me feel that I am very special in his life. But from past six months, he is flirting around with other girls. The moment I tell him to leave me and move ahead he doesn’t want me to leave him. What should I do? I really love him. I’m confused.

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Prachi Vaish says;

Dear Confused,

I’ll tell you what I tell a lot of other girls who are in the same boat as you (yes, you are not alone in falling for married men). You have become his steady backup. What he cannot get from his wife, or when he craves the excitement of a new relationship, the thrill, he comes to you.

Now that you have also become somewhat “steady” he’s moving on for that thrill. But practically he also knows that it won’t be possible for him to have more than one steady “girlfriend” while staying married and protecting his secret, he’s still not letting you go.

This is the real picture laid bare, without the “love” glasses. So now I suppose you will be able to figure out what you need to do. Make your own life. Find a man for whom you will be the first priority, and trust me, there is one out there! You deserve a lot better! 🙂

Prachi

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