“It’s like I’m his sister.”
“He’s all, ‘Wham, bam, thank you, ma’am’.”
“I feel like we are roommates. Work, eat, sleep together. That’s it.”
“Both of us want it thrice. She, in a year. I, in a week.”
These are some things that couples who decide to come to us have said.
They are a minority who decide to acknowledge the problem, talk about it, get help. Just the tip of the iceberg. The majority suffers in silence, denies the existence of any problem. It’s like sexual life is some alien concept. Or something that can’t be named, much less discussed.