How To Be A Better Lover – 11 Pro Tips By A Sex Therapist
Complete your sentences. Clearly express needs. Caring communication.
Use the 3 Cs of communication
Pleasure is a two-way street.
Find a middle path to make sure both partners’ needs are met
Make it clear if something is unacceptable.
Establish the non-negotiables
So instead of saying, “You always run away after sex”, try saying, “I would like for you to cuddle after sex”
Use the “I” instead of “you” language
Do what you and your partner are in the mood for.
Orgasm is not the end goal
The journey to figuring out how to be a better lover in bed begins outside the bedroom
Deepen your connection with your partner
Indulge in elaborate foreplay as often as possible
Slow down and enjoy your partner
This will keep things fun and interesting.
Try new and different positions in bed
There are more areas to explore than you think (Hint: earlobes and necks).
Explore your and your partner’s erogenous zones
Try dressing up or blindfolding and teasing your partner.
Surprise them with new elements
Don't undervalue the effect of a body massage with candles and soft music.
Savor each part of intimacy in the bedroom
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