Shin ina son shi tambaya?

Tambayoyi | | Gwani Marubuci , psychologist
An sabunta ta: Disamba 26, 2024
Shin ina son shi
Yada soyayya

Ƙauna kamar wasa ce mai cike da guntuwa, musamman ma idan ya zo ga gano yadda muke ji ga wani na musamman. Ka taɓa tambayar kanka, “Shin da gaske nake sonsa, ko kuwa ina son ra’ayinsa kawai?

Wannan tambayar "Shin Ina Son Shi" yana nan don taimaka muku warware waɗannan motsin zuciyarku kuma ku sami haske. Ƙauna na iya zama ɗan wayo-ba koyaushe ba ne mai sauƙi a gane ko abin da kuke ji shine ainihin ma'amala ko kuma abin sha'awa ne kawai. Mu wargaje shi tare.

Tafiyar soyayya ta fara ne da farin cikin sanin wani sabo. Duk da haka, yayin da farin cikin ya kwanta, abu ne na halitta a yi tambaya ko an gina haɗin ku ne bisa ga soyayya ta gaske ko kuma abubuwan waje ne suka rinjayi shi. Shin kuna yaba musu saboda ainihin su, kurakurai da duk abin da suke, ko kuma kuna son hoton wanda kuke son su zama?

Jan hankali na farko na iya zama mai ƙarfi wanda wani lokacin yana iya haifar da ƙarfin maganadisu wanda yake jin kamar soyayya a farkon gani. Wannan jan hankali mai ƙarfi ba shine ainihin ma'aunin dacewa na dogon lokaci ba kuma zai iya ɓatar da ku cikin tunanin kun sami ɗayan.

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A cikin duniyar yau mai saurin tafiya, inda dangantaka ke iya zama mai wucewa, ya zama ruwan dare don jin ɗan ruɗani game da ko abin da muke ji ƙauna ce ta gaskiya ko kuma kawai son ɗan lokaci. Wannan tambayar ba game da ba ku dukkan amsoshi ba ne - game da taimaka muku yin tunani game da yadda kuke ji da ƙarin koyo game da kanku a cikin aikin. Bari mu fara!

Karatu Mai Alaƙa : Ta Yaya Ake Gane Idan Kana Son Wani? Tambayoyi

T1. Ina jin daɗin kasancewa tare da shi

  1. amince
  2. Yarda da wani bangare
  3. Rashin yarda

T2. Ina sha'awar duk wani abu da ya shafi shi

  1. amince
  2. Yarda da wani bangare
  3. Rashin yarda

T3. Wasu mutane ba sa sha'awara kamar yadda yake sha'awa

  1. amince
  2. Yarda da wani bangare
  3. Rashin yarda

T4. Ina jin dumi da aminci a kusa da shi

  1. amince
  2. Yarda da wani bangare
  3. Rashin yarda

T5. Ko da lokacin da muke faɗa, ina son in sa abubuwa su yi aiki domin yana da muhimmanci a gare ni fiye da yadda yaƙin yake da muhimmanci a gare ni.

  1. amince
  2. Yarda da wani bangare
  3. Rashin yarda

T6. Na daɗe ina jin daɗinsa sosai kuma ba su shuɗe ba

  1. amince
  2. Yarda da wani bangare
  3. Rashin yarda

T7. Kasancewa kusa da shi yana sa ni jin daɗi kai tsaye

  1. amince
  2. Yarda da wani bangare
  3. Rashin yarda

T8. Ina so in gabatar da shi ga abokai da dangi

  1. amince
  2. Yarda da wani bangare
  3. Rashin yarda

T9. Yana da sauƙi a gare ni in yi masa magana game da komai

  1. amince
  2. Yarda da wani bangare
  3. Rashin yarda

T10. Ina tunanin makomarmu tare

  1. amince
  2. Yarda da wani bangare
  3. Rashin yarda

Gudummawar da kuka bayar ba ta nufin bayar da gudummawa ta sadaka ba . Zai ba Bonobology damar ci gaba da kawo muku sabbin bayanai da sabbin bayanai a kokarinmu na taimaka wa kowa a duniya ya koyi yadda ake yin komai.




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